By Pastor Mark Hopper

Every January, we do a simple survey at our church.  We have found this survey to be helpful as we evaluate how our church is doing and what we may need to change in the future.

Every year we ask the same three questions. First, we ask each family or individual, “How long have you been coming to our church?” The answers range from a few months to over 30 years!  One thing this helps us learn is how many new people have become regular attendees during the past year. In addition, it helps us see how many other people remain a part of our church year after year.

The second question we ask is, “How did you find our church”?  The answer to this question helps us understand what or who introduced new people to our church.  The answers are not surprising.  Some say they found our church by driving by.  Younger adults found our church on the Internet.  But the vast majority of people say that they found our church through the invitation of a friend or family member.

We use the phrase that “God uses people to bring other people to Himself”.  There is a passage in the New Testament in Second Corinthians 5:17-21 that says, “We are His Ambassadors”.  God’s plan is to use people to tell other people about Him.  Inviting a friend, neighbor, classmate or co-worker to church is one of the best ways to introduce them to God.

Newspaper advertisements and programs on the radio may attract some people, but the best advertising is word of mouth.   When people hear about a new restaurant or a new clothing store from a friend, they are more likely to try it for themselves.  We have learned that people are more likely to visit church when they are invited by a friend, neighbor, co-worker or family member.

The third question we ask in our annual survey is, “Share some things you like about our church”.  The answers to this question help us understand why people stay at our church.  Although we get a lot of different answers to this question like kids programs, worship services, good looking pastor, etc., the most frequent reply is that they found our church to be friendly and they made significant friendships with others here.

Relationships are the glue that keeps people coming back.  Adults, teens and children who make friends want to keep coming.  On the other hand, we have seen that those who do not make friends tend to not stay or get involved.

Pastor Larry Osborne at the North Coast Evangelical Free Church near San Diego wrote a book titled, “Sticky Church.”  He echoes this same idea.  People are looking for significant relationships.  They tend to stay where they connect with other people.

This principle has led us to give more emphasis to small groups with our teens and adults. We encourage people to find a small group of people in our church who are in a similar stage of life or have similar interests.

I’m sure there are more questions we could ask each year and more things we could learn.  But these three questions have helped us learn – and hopefully improve – some of the ministries and priorities of our church.

As you begin the New Year, let me encourage you to visit a church near you.  Ask a trusted friend or neighbor where they go to church.  Visit a few times and make an effort to get to know others in your stage of life.  Go online and learn about the church’s vision and values.

One word of warning:  You will never find a perfect church.  Every church is filled with imperfect people.  A church is a place to find hope, forgiveness and purpose for living.  Make sure that the church you find believes the Bible and teaches the Bible.  Build your faith on the Bible.

Grow in your faith with other people at a local church in this New Year.

Pastor Mark Hopper is from the Evangelical Free Church of Diamond Bar, 3255 South Diamond Bar Ave. Sunday services are 9 a.m. and 10:45 a.m. For more information, call (909) 594-7604 or visit http://www.efreedb.org.