By Nancy Stoops

Nancy Stoops M.A., M.F.T Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

I grew up in love with the movie, “The Wizard of Oz.”  My favorite part of the classic was when Glenda, the Good Witch, told Dorothy that she always had the power within her.  She also told her that she needed to believe in her power if she was to make her way home.

So let’s assume that Glenda’s theory is correct for all of us.  What if I was to tell you I think Glenda was not only right, but really on to something?  What if you had the power to change yourself and your life?  What if you could actually obtain the life you want and deserve?

Now please understand that Dorothy was able to just click her heels together three times to get her wish, and it will be a little bit harder for you.  Your magic will begin with a newly found faith in yourself and your capabilities, just like Dorothy.  I have found that dreams come true when people begin to believe in themselves.

Please keep in mind that you are never too old to change and to grow into somebody that you will be proud to be.  It may take forgiving yourself, letting go of all the reasons to fail, and looking very deep within for the courage to change.  I personally believe that a life full of regret is much more frightening.

So look deep within and find that inner strength and confidence.  Take a look at all you have already survived and stop doubting your abilities, intelligence and tenacity.  Each and every day, put one foot in front of the other and soon you will be exactly where you want to be.  Just for a moment, close your eyes and think about how great that would feel.  I believe in you and know that you can do it!

This article was written by Nancy Stoops M.A., M.F.T. Nancy is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. She has a private practice in Diamond Bar and is currently accepting new clients. Nancy is also a motivational speaker who can inspire your employees or group members. She runs free family support groups, a group on loss for seniors, and groups on how to manage anger. For more information about any of these services, feel free to contact Nancy at (909) 229-0727; or you may e-mail her at stoopsshecter@earthlink.net. You may purchase Nancy’s books, Live Heal and Grow and Midnight the Therapy Dog at Amazon.com.