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An Early Harvest

Pastor Mark Hopper

Pastor Mark Hopper

By Mark Hopper

 

Thank you for all of your prayers and support for our little garden.  Every time the grandkids come to visit, they run to the back yard to see what has been happening.

Their enthusiasm is contagious.  They are so excited to see tomatoes growing and strawberries multiplying.  They are amazed at how big some of the plants are getting.

Recently, they pulled a few carrots out of the ground.  Wow!  They looked like real carrots. This may not seem like a big deal to you, but for these young children, it is amazing!

In the past, my feeble efforts have produced a few squash and some tomatoes, but I have not had a lot of luck growing carrots.  I don’t know if my soil is too hard or if I did not water often enough.

But this year, there are real carrots – just like the ones you see in the store.  And, we grew them and harvested them ourselves!

My eight-year-old granddaughter seemed to understand how amazing it is that those little tiny seeds that we planted a few months ago have grown into these big plants and tasty carrots!

We have planted some more carrot seeds and some onion seeds, too.  We also planted some snow pea seeds in the garden.  We are already seeing some new little seedlings emerging from the soil.

However, there is a dark side to this story.  Someone or something is eating our strawberries.  On more than one occasion, I have seen a large ripe strawberry happy and healthy in the evening, but gone the next morning.  Someone is eating our berries!

In addition, I know that we will face more challenges in the weeks to come as the tomato worms and other adversaries discover our little garden.  I know that the birds and the bugs need food too, but why do they have to dine at my house?

The writers of the Bible often used examples from farming and gardening to help their readers learn.  In one passage the author says, “One plants and another waters, but God makes things grow” (I Corinthians 3:6-8).

My grandkids and I are planting the seeds and watering the soil, and we are amazed at how much God has made things grow!

May I Have Your Attention Please?

Pastor Mark Hopper

Pastor Mark Hopper

By Pastor Mark Hopper

We have all been watching and waiting for El Niño.  The weather man has been predicting heavy rain all winter, but we have not seen much in Southern California.

Our drought has been the topic of conversation for months.  The Governor of California and our state legislature has mandated 25% reduction in water consumption.

Everyone is looking for ways to conserve water.  We see signs posted in the medians of our roads and grass has been replaced by wood chips.   Even my local gym is asking members to reduce water usage.  I guess that means less exercise and fewer showers!

I was reading a passage in the Bible recently that specifically mentioned a drought.  The Prophet Jeremiah told the people of Israel 2500 years ago that God had withheld rain because they had turned away from following Him. (Jeremiah 14:1-10)

Jeremiah said that water wells were empty, farmers were dismayed, the soil was cracked and the wild animals could not find water for their young.  It was a grim scene in a land that was dependent on rain to survive.

At another time, an Old Testament Prophet named Elijah predicted that it would not rain in Israel for three years.  It got the attention of the people.  Even the King’s servants had trouble finding water (I Kings 17 & 18).

Why does a drought get our attention? I suppose it reminds us how dependent we are on the weather.  We are just as dependent on rain and snow today as people were in ancient times.

A drought also reminds us that this planet we live on is fragile and delicate.  It has a remarkable system where rain falls from the sky, drains back to the oceans and is recycled back into rain and snow again.  Rain enables crops to grow, fruit to flourish, and provides water for us to use and drink.

The Apostle Paul said, “God has shown His kindness by giving us rain from heaven and crops in their seasons; He provides us with plenty of food and fills our hearts with joy”(Acts 14:17).  In Acts 17:27, Paul said, “He did this so that men would seek Him and find Him.”

In spite of all of our scientific knowledge and technological advances, we are still dependent on rain, snow and water.  Without these basic things that God provides, life as we know it would cease to exist.

I wonder if God is trying to get our attention.  I wonder if we are so busy and distracted that we have failed to acknowledge the existence of God and our need of Him.  I wonder if He is saying, “May I have your attention please?”

Pastor Mark Hopper is from the Evangelical Free Church of Diamond Bar, 3255 South Diamond Bar Blvd.  Sunday services are 9 a.m. and 10:45 a.m.  For more information, call (909) 594-7604 or visit Efreedb.org.

 

Feed The Kids First

Pastor Mark Hopper

Pastor Mark Hopper

By Pastor Mark Hopper

Several years ago, we had our whole family together during the Christmas holidays.  My wife and I have four adult kids, three son-in-laws and seven grandkids.  That is a lot of people!

To save money, we decided to eat most of our meals at home.  Each family was assigned to prepare a dinner for the whole group.  This included purchasing the food, preparing the meal, and cleaning up afterward.

It sounded like a good idea and each family member accepted their assignment enthusiastically.  As they planned their meal, they tried to select different foods that would also be kid friendly.  Pizza, tacos and spaghetti were at the top of the list.

The shopping went well and the food preparation too.  But, when it came to serving dinner, things were not as easy.  We learned quickly that is was difficult for the adults to eat dinner and feed the children at the same time.

We adopted a new plan.  Feed the kids first!  The adults could wait, but feed the kids first.  After the kids were fed, we put on a movie so they would be entertained while the adults enjoyed dinner and conversation.

It made dinner so much more relaxed and enjoyable.  The kids were fed and happy to watch a movie.  The adults were happy to enjoy warm food and good conversation.

I have heard that leaders in the military always make sure that the troops are fed first, before the officers eat.  An important responsibility of a leader is to serve and help others.  Good leaders put the needs of others first.

In the Bible, Jesus emphasized the importance of serving others.  He said that He did not come expecting others to serve Him, but He came to serve and help others (Mark 10:45).  The Apostle Peter wrote, “Use whatever gifts that God has given you to serve others” (I Peter 4:10).

Let me encourage you to watch for an opportunity this week to put the needs of others ahead of your own needs.  Remember – “feed the kids first”.  You will be glad you did and they will too!

Pastor Mark Hopper is from the Evangelical Free Church of Diamond Bar, 3255 South Diamond Bar Blvd.  Sunday services are 9 a.m. and 10:45 a.m.  For more information, call (909) 594-7604 or visit Efreedb.org.

Winning The Trophy

Pastor Mark Hopper

Pastor Mark Hopper

By Mark Hopper
Recently a group of men from our church participated in the Walnut – Diamond Bar Sherriff Booster Club Golf Tournament.
Over 100 golfers enjoyed a beautiful day at the Western Hills Golf Club in Chino Hills. The goal of the tournament was to raise funds to provide shirts, uniforms and other equipment for the Sherriff’s junior cadet program.
The golf tournament featured a “Scramble” format where the golfers in each foursome help each other.
Each member in the foursome takes their first shot at the tee box. Then, they take their next shot from the location of the best hit in their group. They repeat this format until they reach the green. Then, each golfer putts from the same place on the green until one member of the group hits a ball into the cup.
It sounds pretty simple. Each golfer gets to play from the best shot each time. Usually at least one member of the group will hit the ball on the fairway and eventually one of them will hit their ball on to the green.
However, golf is never as easy as it looks. There were times when no one in our group hit the fairway. There were many times that we failed to reach the green in regulation. And, we had a hard time sinking our putts.
There was an award ceremony at dinner after the tournament. Scores were announced and prizes and trophies were awarded. The winning foursome had a score of 15 under par! That was amazing! They deserved their First Prize trophies.
Another foursome was given special recognition, too. They were given smaller trophies. The engraving on the trophy said, “Best Effort”. When the MC announced the winners of the “Best Effort” trophy, he called our names! We won!
However, what that “Best Effort” trophy actually meant was that our foursome actually had the worst score of the tournament! We really didn’t want that trophy. It was embarrassing.
In a few weeks, the Rotary Club of Walnut Valley and the Diamond Bar Community Foundation are also having their Golf Tournament at Western Hills Country Club. The date is Monday, May 9th.
The purpose of the tournament is to raise funds to benefit children and teens in our area. Money that is raised will be used for leadership camps, sports programs and local fine arts programs.
Both golfers and sponsors are invited to participate in this important annual event. For more information and registration details, please contact me at markh@efreedb.org or co-chairman, Lew Herndon at lewherndon@hotmail.com.
We will be using the same “Scramble” format, but we will not be giving out any “Best Effort” trophies. My golfing buddies don’t have any room in their trophy cases for any more of those!

Pastor Mark Hopper is from the Evangelical Free Church of Diamond Bar, 3255 South Diamond Bar Blvd.  Sunday services are 9 a.m. and 10:45 a.m.  For more information, call (909) 594-7604 or visithttp://www.efreedb.org

An Old Friend

Pastor Mark Hopper

Pastor Mark Hopper

By Pastor Mark Hopper

We got a phone call today that a dear friend had died.  It was not unexpected; Margaret was over 90 years old.  But this wonderful woman and her husband made a lasting impact on our family.

We met Ray and Margaret while I was the pastor of a small church in Tucson, Arizona, in the 1980’s. They were “snow birds” who came to Tucson each year to get away from the long, cold winters in Minnesota.  They were hard working farmers with grown children and several grandchildren.  They were able to soak up some sunshine in Arizona during the winter months.  Later, they bought a home in Tucson and became full-time residents.

Ray and Margaret quietly helped others.  They had servant hearts.  When my wife and I needed to get away for a few days, they would stay with our kids in our house.  Not only did they feed and care for our kids, but they would clean our house too!

Our children still remember the “clean plate club” when Ray and Margaret came to stay with them.  If our kids ate all the food on their plates, they were rewarded by Ray and Margaret with a visit to Dairy Queen and a Peanut Buster Sundae!

When our young family was growing and we needed a room addition, Ray and Margaret loaned us the money to finish the job.  Although we did repay that loan over several years, they insisted on providing the floor covering so that our young kids would not be walking or crawling on a cement floor!

One summer we drove across the country and visited their farm in northern Minnesota.  We were thrilled to see their family farm, their home and their garden.  It sure looked different than the Arizona desert where our family lived.

Ray and Margaret had a firm, unshakable faith in Jesus Christ.  In his later years, Ray used to say goodbye like this, “If I don’t see you again, I’ll see you in heaven”.

They were generous and faithful members of our church.  I will never forget the time when our church was beginning a new building project.  We were committed to pay cash for each phase of construction.  At one point, the lumber was scheduled to be delivered on a Monday but we didn’t have all the funds to pay at delivery.  The church leaders met after the Sunday evening service to pray and discuss what we should do.

During that meeting, there was a knock at the door.  A man handed a check to our chairman to cover the remaining amount that was due the next day.  That check came from Ray and Margaret!  I have never forgotten that moment.  It was a wonderful reminder of how God provides through faithful people like this remarkable couple.

I wonder if there have been some people like Ray and Margaret who have impacted your family and your life.    They were like an extra set of grandparents to our kids.

When was the last time you expressed your thanks to someone who impacted your life as a child, teen, young adult or young couple?  Don’t wait until it is too late.  Write a note, send a card or make a call this week and tell them again how much you appreciate how God used them to enrich your life.

Pastor Mark Hopper is from the Evangelical Free Church of Diamond Bar, 3255 South Diamond Bar Blvd.  Sunday services are 9 a.m. and 10:45 a.m.  For more information, call (909) 594-7604 or visithttp://www.efreedb.org

Taking The Bus

Pastor Mark Hopper

Pastor Mark Hopper

By Pastor Mark Hopper

 

I was traveling out of town recently, and I decided to take the bus and metro train back to the airport.  Several people had offered to help me get to the airport, but I thought I could make it on my own.

I went online and checked the bus and metro routes in my area.  The bus ran every 30 minutes and would connect me to the metro train that went to the airport. I walked with my small red suitcase to the bus stop and got there in plenty of time.  Another bus rider assured me that this was the right stop for my bus and that it came every 30 minutes.

When the bus did not come on schedule, my fellow rider was concerned.  This never happened.  The bus was very reliable.  I called the “800” number posted at the bus stop to see what was wrong and was reassured by an impersonal computer voice that my bus would be on time.

Remember, I had a plane to catch and the clock was ticking.  I called the bus line’s “800” number again and finally talked with a real person.  They informed me that there had been mechanical trouble and the next bus would arrive in half an hour.

My previous relaxed composure was gradually changing to anxiety.  Why did I take the bus?  Why didn’t I accept the offers from others to drive me to the airport?  Now I was too embarrassed to call someone for a ride.  I had already declined their offers.  Now, the clock was ticking.  This seemed like a good time to pray and ask for God’s help!

Did I mention that while I was walking to the bus stop, earlier in the morning, that an airport shuttle van had actually pulled into the neighborhood?  What are the odds that a van taking people to the airport was driving through my neighborhood while I was walking to the bus stop to get to the airport?  Was this God sending me help because He knew I was going to need it and yet I refused to recognize it?

I actually walked over to the shuttle van to ask if there was room in his van for me and how much it would cost. Yes, there was room for me, but when I heard the price I knew I could save a lot of money taking the bus and then the metro train.  Little did I know that the price (and peace of mind) of the shuttle van would be a lot less than the price and stress of possibly having to buy a new plane ticket!

While I was waiting for over an hour, the same blue airport shuttle van, with the same driver that I talked to earlier, actually drove right by my bus stop.  I am sure that the shuttle driver smiled as he recognized the stingy guy with the red suitcase.  If I had seen him coming, I would have probably waved for him to stop and rescue me.

My bus did finally arrive.  It was over an hour late.  When I tried to purchase a bus pass that would include the metro to the airport, the driver told me that the machine was broken. Not the best day to choose to ride the bus.

I did finally make it to airport and I did catch my plane, but it was close.

One thing that I learned is that there are nice people on the bus. Every person said “thank you” to the driver as they got off of the bus.  The people on the bus were grateful for the ride.  People in their cars are often grumpy, not grateful.  I also learned to be thankful for my own car and how I so often take for granted the convenience of car ownership.

I was reminded that maybe I need to be more willing to let others help me.  Why did I say “no” when people offered to take me to the airport?  Maybe I need to learn to say “yes” and “thanks” when help is available.

And, maybe I need to learn how to use Uber!

Decorating For Easter

Pastor Mark Hopper

Pastor Mark Hopper

By Mark Hopper

 

One of my least favorite assignments is to “get the boxes down from the attic.”  I hear these words several times a year, when my wife wants to decorate our house for a new season.

 

The largest number of storage boxes contain Christmas decorations.  Most of these are stored on shelves in the garage.  There are fewer Fall decorations and these are stored in the attic space above the garage.  

 

Each of these seasonal decorations contribute to the festive atmosphere in our house for a few weeks.   My job is to get them down and put them away again.

 

Now that Spring is coming, I heard those familiar words again recently.  My wife asked me if I would “get the Easter boxes down from the attic”.  There was a sense of urgency in her voice because two of our granddaughters were coming to our house and she wanted to let them help decorate.

 

 I’m not sure who had more fun, the grandchildren or my wife.  These two young girls had a wonderful time discovering the variety of decorations in those boxes.  They couldn’t believe all the neat stuff that Grammy had collected.  They loved finding places to put the decorations all over our house.

 

I noticed the sparkle in my wife’s eye and the smile on her face as she watched the enthusiasm of her young assistants.  It was enjoyable to watch Grammy and her girls decorate our house for Easter.

 

I don’t know how the seasonal decorating goes on in your house, but I know it is important at our house.   My wife enjoyed it very much and so did her young helpers!

 

This year Easter will be on Sunday, March 27th.  Our church will be having three Easter Sunday services at 8:30, 10:00, and 11:30 a.m.  We will also have one service on Good Friday, March 25th, at 7:00 p.m.

 

Easter is the day when Christians around the world celebrate the Resurrection of Jesus.  The Bible says that Jesus died on the Cross and rose from the dead to pay for our sins and to purchase a place for us in heaven.  I hope you will take time to celebrate Easter this year.  Get out those decorations.  Get up and go to church to celebrate that Jesus is alive!

 

If you don’t have a church home, we would be delighted to have you worship with us on Easter Sunday.   You will be glad you did and we will be too!

Pastor Mark Hopper is from the Evangelical Free Church of Diamond Bar, 3255 South Diamond Bar Blvd. Sunday services are 9 a.m. and 10:45 a.m. For more information, call (909) 594-7604 or visithttp://www.efreedb.org

Two Tea Cups

Pastor Mark Hopper

Pastor Mark Hopper

By Mark Hopper

 

Having a cup of tea is one of my wife’s favorite things. She enjoys a warm cup of tea on a cold winter’s night at home. She enjoys going out with friends to a local tea shop.  She also enjoys taking our daughters and our grandchildren out to a special Tea Party.  The grandkids get special sandwiches and desserts along with a variety of flavored tea, and they love having Tea Parties with Grammy at our house, too.

Enjoying a cup of tea and collecting tea cups are a big deal in our family.

Recently, one of our daughters, who lives out of the area, sent my wife a package.  In the box was a beautiful tea cup and a note.

Her note explained that while she was out shopping, she saw this tea cup and thought of her mother. Our daughter knew that my wife already had plenty of tea cups, but she bought this one to let her mother know she was thinking of her.

Our daughter went on to explain that she had actually purchased two tea cups.  One was for herself and one was for her mother.   Even though they don’t live nearby, my wife and our daughter would have matching tea cups to share.

In her note she wrote, “I got a matching tea cup for me – just like yours, so when I drink out of it, I will be praying for you and you can be praying for me.”

These matching tea cups are a tangible reminder of the bond that is shared by a mother and her daughter.

You may share something similar with a friend or loved one.  Some people have matching bracelets.  Others have one-half of a charm or necklace, with their friend or loved one having the other half.

In the Bible, there are many examples of visual, tangible reminders that God provided to remind his people of his love.  In the Christian Faith, we share a piece of bread and a small cup of juice to remind us of the Last Supper that Jesus shared with His disciples.  The bread is a reminder of His body that was nailed to the Cross and the cup is a reminder of His blood that was shed at His crucifixion.

In the Jewish faith, they share several items of food including unleavened bread and cups of wine as they remember the Passover recorded in Exodus.  These are tangible and visible reminders of God’s love and care.

I wonder if you have something on your shelf or in your cupboard that is a helpful reminder of someone’s love or concern for you?  Is there someone in your family or at your place of work that would be encouraged by a thoughtful gift from you?

Two tea cups can be a timely reminder that you are thinking of others and they are thinking of you!

Pastor Mark Hopper is from the Evangelical Free Church of Diamond Bar, 3255 South Diamond Bar Blvd. Sunday services are 9 a.m. and 10:45 a.m. For more information, call (909) 594-7604 or visithttp://www.efreedb.org

Outstanding Service

Pastor Mark Hopper

Pastor Mark Hopper

By Pastor Mark Hopper

Recently my wife and I had the opportunity to spend a day with some of our grandchildren and their parents at Disneyland.  It was a warm, sunny day at the Happiest Place on Earth.

This was the first time that some of the grand kids had been to Disneyland.  They were very excited to visit both Disneyland and California Adventure.  They enjoyed a number of the rides and attractions in both parks.
One of their favorites was the new “Cars” ride in California Adventure.  This attraction is based on the Disney movie “Cars” and has two cars racing side-by-side down a curving road course.
I waited at the finish line with the youngest grandchild while my wife and the other adults and kids went on the “Cars” ride.  I did not see what happened on the race course, but as the cars raced along, my wife lost the baseball cap she was wearing.  It just flew off as her car rounded a sharp curve.
The reason she was wearing a baseball cap is that she doesn’t have any hair right now.  She has been undergoing chemotherapy treatment for breast cancer and has lost all of her hair.
There was nothing she could do.  The hat was gone and her bald head was exposed to the world.  They operators could not stop the ride.  Her hat was gone.
But then, something unexpected happened.  As soon as the ride came to a complete stop, one of the Disney employees saw my wife’s predicament and stepped in to help.
The female employee quickly ushered my wife off the ride and led her into a souvenir shop nearby.  She instructed my wife to select a new hat at no cost.  It was a timely and thoughtful gift.
The employee said that she did not want my wife to have to spend the rest of the day at Disneyland without a hat to cover her head.  We were surprised and impressed with the Disney employee’s quick and compassionate action.
Our trip to Disneyland with our grandchildren is a day that we will remember for a long time.  We had such a nice time together.  And, it is a day we will remember the outstanding customer service of a thoughtful Disney employee, too.

Pastor Mark Hopper is from the Evangelical Free Church of Diamond Bar, 3255 South Diamond Bar Blvd.  Sunday services are 9 a.m. and 10:45 a.m.  For more information, call (909) 594-7604 or visithttp://www.efreedb.org

How Is Your Garden Growing?

Pastor Mark Hopper

Pastor Mark Hopper

By Mark Hopper

A few weeks ago, I shared that my grandchildren had helped plant seeds in a corner of our back yard.  We planted seeds for lettuce, radishes, carrots and tomatoes.  Every time the kids come to visit our house, they run to the back yard to see how the seeds are doing.  It is fun to see their excitement and enthusiasm.
At first, there was nothing but dirt.  For several weeks, we watered, waited and watched.  Then, at last, there were tiny little seedlings that emerged from the rich, dark soil.  These little sprouts were so small that you might not have noticed them.   A week later, there were many young plants that were emerging all over the garden.  I suppose it has been six to eight weeks since we planted the original seeds.  I wish we had recorded the date.
Now, when the grandchildren come to visit, they have a lot to see.  Small vegetable plants are growing taller and stronger.  The kids love to help water these little plants.  The lettuce looks promising.  I’m not as sure how the carrots and radishes are doing underground.  We can’t wait to see.  I think every child should experience the wonder of planting seeds.  It is amazing that a living plant emerges from a dead seed in a pile of dirt.  It is amazing that fruits and vegetables are the result of one little seed!
I know that many people believe that this is simply a result of millions of years of evolution.
But, I think it is actually evidence for the existence of God and the perfect balance of conditions that enable tiny seeds to grow into healthy, edible plants.  The conditions have to be perfect – water, sunlight, soil and nutrients all have to be there in the proper amounts.
In the Creation account in Genesis Chapter One we read, ” Then God said, let the earth sprout with vegetation, plants yielding seed after their own kind, and trees bearing fruit with seeds in them after their kind, and God saw that it was good”. (Genesis 1:11)
In the book of Acts, the Apostle Paul says, “God did not leave Himself without evidence, but He has shown His kindness by giving you rain from heaven and crops in their seasons, He provides you with plenty of food and fills your hearts with joy.” (Acts 14:17)
I’m thankful that my grandchildren are able to see these tiny seeds growing into healthy plants.  I hope that they will get to taste some of the fruits of their labor in the months ahead.  And, I hope they will realize that this remarkable process is the result of God’s amazing creation.
The next time you go to the grocery store or a local farmer’s market, take a moment to remember that a hard working farmer planted the seeds that grew into the fruit and vegetables that you see.  And, take a moment to give thanks to God who designed all of this so that we might have food on our table every day.

Pastor Mark Hopper is from the Evangelical Free Church of Diamond Bar, 3255 South Diamond Bar Blvd.  Sunday services are 9 a.m. and 10:45 a.m.  For more information, call (909) 594-7604 or visithttp://www.efreedb.org

Death of a Scholar

Pastor Mark Hopper

Pastor Mark Hopper

By Mark Hopper

Many people were surprised to learn of the sudden death of Supreme Court Justice Anthony Scalia.  He was a brilliant legal scholar who served for many years on the highest court in our land.
But, most people were not aware of the recent death of another brilliant scholar.  His name was Dr. Charles Ryrie.  He was one of my favorite professors at Dallas Theological Seminary.
I never met Justice Anthony Scalia, but I had the privilege of studying under Dr. Ryrie.  He was a slim, soft spoken man who taught Theology for more than five decades.  Some people might recognize his name because he wrote the footnotes notes for the “Ryrie Study Bible”.  Anyone can learn a lot from just reading the Bible.  But you can learn even more when you read a “Study Bible” that includes maps and footnotes that provide additional background information as you read passages in the Bible.
When I studied at Dallas Seminary in the 1970’s, Dr. Ryrie provided us with helpful insights and clear explanations in both Theology (the study of God) and study of the Bible.  I still remember some of his clear, crisp summaries of deep theological subjects.  In addition to the Ryrie Study Bible, Dr. Ryrie also authored a number of other books.  His writings were clear and uncomplicated.  His teaching style was thoughtful and easy to understand.
I’m convinced that the Bible was written so that people could easily read and understand it.  Although the Bible was written over a period of 1500 years by more than 40 different authors, it provides us with a remarkable understanding of the nature of God and records many of His wonderful works.
It was a special privilege to study under Dr. Charles Ryrie.  I continue to appreciate and use the lessons and insights that I learned from this remarkable scholar.  I also appreciate that he was approachable and available to his students.  When I was in my final year at the seminary, two of my classmates and I invited Dr. Ryrie to lunch.  He gladly accepted our invitation and we enjoyed a memorable time with this humble man.  I don’t know if it improved our grades in his class, but it was a time that I still remember to this day.
Maybe there has been a teacher, coach, professor or mentor that has impacted your life.  Why not take a moment and send them a note and thank them for their impact in your life?  I regret that I don’t have the opportunity to thank Dr. Ryrie in this life, but I believe that I will have that opportunity when I see him again in heaven.

A Box of Cookies

Pastor Mark Hopper

Pastor Mark Hopper

By Pastor Mark Hopper
We are always thankful when new people visit our church.  We usually have a variety of guests and visitors of all ages.
Many have come because they have driven by our church on Diamond Bar Blvd. on their way to work or school.  Many other new visitors come because a friend or family member has invited them.  We make a special effort to meet these new guests when they come.  We try to introduce them to other people at our church, especially people who are around the same age or at the same life stage.
Twice a month, we go out into the community and visit the people who have visited us.  We call this program “Home Visits.”  We typically go out two evenings a month.  We bring information with us about our church.  And we always bring a box of cookies.
Some people might think this is old-fashioned, but we have found it to be an effective way to get to know new guests and thank them for coming to our church.  There are some occasions when people are reluctant to open their door when we knock, but most of the time, people seem very appreciative that we would take the time to come to their home.
I think the main reason they are willing to welcome us into their home is because we bring cookies!  Sometimes we bring Snickerdoodles, and sometimes we bring cookies with sprinkles, but I think everyone’s favorite cookies are chocolate chip- at least they are my favorite!
This simple effort has helped us to get to know many people in our community.  We enjoy telling these guests about our church and we enjoy getting to know them.  I wonder how well you know your neighbors?  Do you know their names?  Do you know their children by name?
Many people in our community do not know who their neighbors are.  We have become isolated and indifferent.  We have lost the art of being a good neighbor.
Maybe it is time for you to buy some cookies or bake some cookies and go knock on your neighbor’s door.  Maybe it is time for you to take the initiative and get out and get to know the people who live on your street or in the condo next door.  Get up and get out and get to know some of your neighbors.  You will be glad you did and they will too.  And don’t forget the cookies!
PS:  Let us know if you would like us to bring you a box of cookies.
We would be glad to!
Pastor Mark Hopper is from the Evangelical Free Church of Diamond Bar, 3255 South Diamond Bar Blvd.  Sunday services are 9 a.m. and 10:45 a.m.  For more information, call (909) 594-7604 or visit http://www.efreedb.org

 

Holding Hands

Pastor Mark Hopper

Pastor Mark Hopper

By Pastor Mark Hopper

Recently, I was on my way to visit someone at Pomona Valley Hospital when I saw something that caught my attention.

Instead of taking the freeway, I took surface streets.  I like to stay off the busy freeways whenever I can and enjoy the side streets and local neighborhoods.  As I was driving along Orange Grove Avenue in Pomona, I saw an older couple walking on the sidewalk.  It was a nice day, the sun was shining and this couple seemed to be enjoying their stroll.

The thing that caught my attention was that they were holding hands.  Yes, they were holding hands.  This couple looked like they were in their 70’s.  I’m sure they were grandparents or maybe even great-grandparents.  But as they slowly walked along the sidewalk, they were holding hands.

I suppose we expect to see some teens or young couples holding hands.  Sometimes we see couples out on a date holding hands, but I don’t think we often see older couples taking a walk and holding hands.  I wonder, why do we stop holding hands with our spouse?  I suppose that it is when we start having children. Young parents have their hands full with baby carriers and diaper bags.  It may be when we try to protect our toddlers and tell them “hold my hand” as you cross the street or navigate through a busy parking lot.

Since we are busy holding the hands of our children, we may not have the opportunity to hold the hand of our husband or wife.  In addition, there are those times when our hands are filled with groceries, shopping bags and other things so we are not able to hold someone’s hand.

I think God gave us human hands so that we can touch, caress and embrace those we love.  Touch is a powerful sense that can communicate so much.  Whether it is a soft touch or a firm grip, our hands communicate love and emotion.

Let me encourage you this Valentine’s season to hold someone’s hand.  Make an effort to hold their hand as you walk to the car or stroll through a park.  Use your hands to communicate your love and feelings for the special people in your life.  They will be glad you did and you will too.

Pastor Mark Hopper is from the Evangelical Free Church of Diamond Bar, 3255 South Diamond Bar Blvd.  Sunday services are at 9 a.m. and 10:45 a.m.  For more information, call (909) 594-7604 or visit http://www.efreedb.org

It’s Tax Season

Pastor Mark Hopper

Pastor Mark Hopper

By Pastor Mark Hopper 

 

There is bad news and good news about income taxes this year.  The bad news is that it’s tax season again.  The good news is that income taxes are not due until April 18th!

I know there is a lot of tax preparation software available these days.  And there are many tax professionals that can help people with filing their income tax returns.   Since I usually do my own taxes, I spend hours reading the instructions and filling out my tax return.   It used to take weeks to get additional forms.   Now, I can find them online and print my own copies.

All year long, I collect and keep receipts in a large manila envelope.  In January, it takes a lot of time to sort and organize these into different piles.  I have heard that it takes the average tax payer from five to ten hours to prepare their income taxes.   I’m sure it takes me a lot longer!

Eventually, my taxes get done and in the mail before the deadline.  I always say a short prayer when I put my tax return in the mail.  I hope that I got them right!

If I were a politician, I would simplify the whole income tax system.  More people would probably file their own taxes if the process was simplified.  I wonder if the complexity motivates people to not file at all or requires many people to hire tax professionals?

There is a passage in the Bible that says, “Give to everyone what you owe him; if you owe taxes, pay taxes, if you owe revenue, then pay revenue, if you owe respect, give respect and if you owe honor, then give honor” (Romans 13:7)   When Jesus was asked if people should pay taxes He answered, “Whose picture is on the Roman coin?” The answer was Caesar.  Therefore, He said, “give to Caesar what is Caesar’s and give to God what is God’s” (Mark 12:14-17).

I don’t think anyone enjoys paying taxes, but it is part of life.  If we live in this country, we should expect to support this country with our taxes.  We may not always like the way our local, state or national governments spend our money, but we should pay our taxes and then show our approval or disapproval at the ballot box in November.

Don’t forget – good news – the tax deadline this year is April 18th!

Pastor Mark Hopper is from the Evangelical Free Church of Diamond Bar, 3255 South Diamond Bar Blvd.  Sunday Services are at 9 a.m. and 10:45 a.m.  For more information, call (909) 594-7604 or visit efreedb.org.

What Color Is Your Car?

Pastor Mark Hopper

Pastor Mark Hopper

By Pastor Mark Hopper

I have heard people say that you can learn a lot about a person by the color of their car.

People with flashy red or bright yellow cars are probably seeking the attention of others.  This may be true.  I read somewhere that people who get the most traffic tickets are people who drive red cars and trucks.

I have also heard that people who desire less attention drive cars that blend in, like gray, silver or tan.  We have a gray car and a silver car.  So that must tell you something about my personality!

As I looked around our neighborhood, I noticed that one neighbor had only white vehicles parked in their driveway.  Every car and truck in their family was white.  Maybe this reflects the unity in their family?  However, I think I did notice a darker color recently.  Maybe more diversity is emerging at their house.

It is also surprising how many dark colored cars there are in our neighborhood.  One member of our family has a black Honda Accord.  Another neighbor has a black pickup truck.  Maybe the darker colors look more expensive and luxurious.

A few years ago, a hot topic in the news was the question, “What kind of car would Jesus drive?” This generated a lot of discussion and controversy.  My answer was that Jesus would probably drive a large passenger van so He could help bring people to church!

Maybe we can start a new discussion by asking, “What color car would Jesus drive?”  I’ll let you ponder this deep question.  I don’t know for sure, but I do know that the two passenger vans at our church are dark green.

There is a verse in the Bible that says, “Man looks at the outward appearance, but God looks at the heart,” (I Samuel 16:7).  Maybe we should not give as much attention to the color of the cars our neighbors are driving.  Maybe we should focus on what is “under the hood”.

Let’s do the same with the people we meet each day.  Don’t focus on their hairstyle or the clothes they wear.  We should focus on their heart and realize that each person we meet is precious and valuable in God’s sight.

Pastor Mark Hopper is from the Evangelical Free Church of Diamond Bar, 3255 South Diamond Bar Blvd.  Sunday services are 9 a.m. and 10:45 a.m.  For more information, call (909) 594-7604 or visithttp://www.efreedb.org

Washing Windows

Pastor Mark Hopper

Pastor Mark Hopper

By Pastor Mark Hopper

We decided to wash the windows around our house a few months ago.  It was surprising to see how dirty they were.  A little elbow grease and our favorite household cleaner produced some really clean windows!  I don’t think we realized just how dirty the windows had become until we began washing them.  Dust and dirt had collected over the past few months.  Summer rain storms and daily grime had coated the windows with a dirty film.

The screens were dirty too, so we also took the screens off the windows and hosed them down with water.  The results were amazing.  We could see out of the clean windows.  The screens and glass looked great.  The before and after were amazing.  What a difference it made to invest a little time simply washing the windows!  Now, when we look out the windows, we see things so much more clearly.  The trees look greener and the patio looks cleaner.  It was like putting on a new pair of glasses – we could see everything much more clearly.

I wonder how much dust and dirt build up in our own hearts and lives.  Harmful habits and self-centered attitudes can creep into our lives before we even realize it.  We didn’t realize how dirty the windows had become at our house because the dust and grime built up slowly over time.

There are times that each of us could be helped by a little “window cleaning”.  Each of us needs to examine our own hearts and seek God’s forgiveness for the sin that accumulates in our lives.

There is a verse in the Bible that says, “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness” (I John 1:9).

We all need to spend a quiet moment with God each day to “clear the decks” and “clean the windows” so that His light can shine brighter through us.  The windows in our homes and the windows of our heart sure look a lot better when they are clean!

Pastor Mark Hopper is from the Evangelical Free Church of Diamond Bar, 3255 South Diamond Bar Blvd.  Sunday services are 9 a.m. and 10:45 a.m.  For more information, call (909) 594-7604 or visit http://www.efreedb.org

Clueless

Pastor Mark Hopper

Pastor Mark Hopper

By Pastor Mark Hopper
I am a big fan of summer.  I like the long evenings and the warm sun.  I like working in the yard and with just a pair of shorts and a t-shirt.   I am not as big a fan of winter.  I don’t enjoy wearing long sleeve shirts and warm coats. I would prefer to not need to wear a sweater or sweatshirt every time I go out the door.  My wife would say that I am not always aware of what I am wearing.  When she sees me wearing an old shirt or a worn-out sweater, she will encourage me to not wear it outside the house.
But what do you do when there is no one around to help you know what colors go together or what shirt goes with a particular pair of pants?  I think most men need help in this area.  That is why men need a wife to help them with these sensitive matters.  Not long ago, I got dressed for work and put on a warm sweater and went out the door.  When I went to a scheduled meeting, someone tapped on my shoulder and said that there was something on the back of my sweater.
When I looked to see what he was referring to, I didn’t notice a thing.  Maybe it was just some fuzz or lint.  I went through the entire day and did not know that there was something wrong.  When I got home that night, I discovered that I had put the sweater on backwards!  The thing on the back of my sweater was a design of a small sail boat.  It is the logo for the Nautica sportswear company!  It belongs in the front!
I was very embarrassed.  I had been wearing my sweater backwards all day long.  I wonder how many people noticed this but did not say anything?  I wonder how many people did not notice or didn’t care? There is a verse in the Bible that says, “Two are better than one because they have a good return for their labor.  If one of them falls, the other will lift him up” (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10).  Maybe we could paraphrase the verse to say, “If one wears his sweater backwards, the other can help point out his mistake and help correct the problem”.
Let me encourage you to be open to the suggestions or correction of a trusted friend or family member.  They may see something in your life that you are unaware of.  They may be able to help you “get your sweater on” right and help you avoid embarrassing yourself!
Pastor Mark Hopper is from the Evangelical Free Church of Diamond Bar, 3255 South Diamond Bar Blvd.  Sunday services are 9 a.m. and 10:45 a.m.  For more information, call (909) 594-7604 or visit http://www.efreedb.org

Keep On Knocking

Pastor Mark Hopper

Pastor Mark Hopper

by Pastor Mark Hopper

Recently I was working on a home improvement project when I ran out of material.  I had put down some new floor tile and was trying to complete the grout, but I didn’t have enough grout to finish.  Bummer!
I knew that there was a Home Depot nearby and thought they were open until 10:00 PM.  So I jumped into the car and hurried over, thinking I had plenty of time to spare.  However, when I arrived at the store, I noticed that the parking lot was pretty empty and there were not many people around.  As I walked up to the front door, I discovered that the store closed at 9:00 PM, not 10:00 PM.  The ten o’clock closing time was correct in the summer, but in the winter they had an earlier closing time.  Now what should I do?  It was only a few minutes after nine when I arrived and I could still see a number of employees inside the store.  They were cleaning up and closing up for the day.
I knocked on the glass door and one employee saw me holding my empty container.  The employee was kind enough to come to the door and listen to my distressing situation. To my surprise, he opened the door and asked me what color of grout I needed. He explained that he could not let me inside the store, but he offered to go look for what I needed. I handed him the empty container and off he went. A few minutes later, the helpful employee returned with two other employees following him. Maybe this was a security measure to make sure I wasn’t planning to rob the store.
He found a new container of grout matching the color and texture of the empty container I had given him.  When I pulled out my wallet to pay for the material, he said that he could not accept any money and that the price had been reduced. He gave it to me for free!  The small bucket of grout cost less than $10, but I never expected a huge home improvement store to give me something for free- I was amazed, and I was very thankful to have enough material to finish my late night project.  I was especially thankful for an employee who was kind enough to help me in my time of need.
There is a verse in the Bible where Jesus taught His followers about prayer.  In Matthew 7:7 Jesus said, “Keep on asking and you will be given what you ask for. Keep on looking and you will find. Keep on knocking and the door will be opened.”  I’m sure that I said a little prayer that night when I knocked on the door at Home Depot, hoping that someone would hear and help.  How much more does God love to respond to our daily needs when we come to Him in prayer asking for His help?  All we need to do is bring our needs and requests to Him.  He always hears and He is ready to help!
Pastor Mark Hopper is from the Evangelical Free Church of Diamond Bar, 3255 South Diamond Bar Blvd.  Sunday services are at 9 a.m. and 10:45 a.m.  For more information, call (909) 594-7604 or visit http://www.efreedb.org

Go The Extra Mile

Pastor Mark Hopper

Pastor Mark Hopper

By Pastor Mark Hopper
One phrase that we have often used in our family is “Go The Extra Mile”.  We would tell our kids to do more than they were asked to do.  We wanted them to go beyond what was expected of them.
During His Sermon on the Mount, Jesus gave a series of instructions to his followers.  He challenged them to live differently than the culture of their time.  In Matthew 5:41, Jesus said, “If someone forces you to go one mile, go with him two”.  At the time Jesus spoke those words, the nation of Israel was under Roman occupation.  A Roman soldier could force anyone to carry his equipment and materials up to a full mile.  No one could refuse this demand.
When Jesus said, “go with him two,” He was saying that His followers should exceed what is demanded of them by those in authority.  Followers of Christ should go “above and beyond” what is required of them.  Today, many people do as little as possible.  Students in school spend as little time as necessary to complete their homework.  Employees often do the same thing.  They can’t wait to punch their time card and leave their building or factory.
I wonder about you.  When you are given an assignment at work or school, do you strive for excellence or just try to do the minimum required?  Do you exceed the expectations of your teacher or boss or do you only do as little as necessary to complete the assignment?  What would your classmates or co-workers say about the quality of your work and the level of your performance?
I read a story about a man in England who built walls out of rocks and stones.  You see these stone walls all over rural England.  He was very careful to make sure that the foundation of the wall was well built, even though it would eventually be covered up with dirt.  When his young apprentice asked him why he spent so much time and effort on the part of the wall that no one would see, he replied, “Even if no one else sees it, I will know and God will know if it was well built.”
Let me challenge you to exceed expectations and excel in what you do.  Look for opportunities to “go the extra mile.”  Others may never know the extra time and effort you invested, but God will know and you will, too!
Pastor Mark Hopper is from the Evangelical Free Church of Diamond Bar, 3255 South Diamond Bar Blvd.  Sunday services are 9 a.m. and 10:45 a.m.  For more information, call (909) 594-7604 or visit http://www.efreedb.org

A Man Named Mark

Pastor Mark Hopper

Pastor Mark Hopper

By Pastor Mark Hopper

The worst home improvement project is plumbing.  When you start a plumbing project in most homes, you can expect to go back to the store at least three times and often more.

Recently, my wife and I were in Arizona visiting her mother and working on some home improvement projects. One of the major projects I undertook was to change the valves on the water connections for the washing machine.  A main reason that plumbing projects are so frustrating is that you have to turn off the main water supply into the house before you can change out valves and other water supply outlets.  Once the water is off and old valves are removed, there is no turning back.  You are committed to finishing the job completely before you can turn the water back on.  There is no room for error or only doing the job halfway.  Once you start, you have to finish.   Inevitably, you run into a problem that you did not expect.  In my case, I was trying to replace the two valves that supply the hot and cold water to the washing machine.

On my first trip to the store, I bought two identical valves and they looked the same.  When I brought them home and tried to install them, one fit but the other one did not.  How could that be?  I went back to the home improvement store looking for help.  Although there were several people willing to help me, they all said I needed to talk to Mark.  He was an experienced plumber with a good name.  He was the one I should talk to.  It turned out that the man named Mark was rather shy and soft spoken, but I quickly discovered that he was both knowledgeable and helpful.  He agreed that my two valves were not the same.  One valve had “compression threads” and the other valve had standard “pipe threads”.  I knew pipes had threads, but I did not realize that there are different kinds of threads!

He said that I needed a transition connection that would enable both of the valves to fit the compression threads coming out of the wall.  No one else in the plumbing department could diagnose my problem, but Mark did.  With his help, some Teflon tape and a lot of pipe dope, I soon had the problem solved and the valves reassembled.  I could turn the water back on and life could return to normal.

I’m thankful that there are “Marks” in the world who can solve problems for us.  It’s great to have someone who is knowledgeable in their field to ask for help and advice.  I’m sure there is someone in your life who knows a lot about computers, car repair or baking cookies. You may have a skill or expertise that enables you to help others, too.  I hope that you will watch for an opportunity to help others like Mark helped me.  And, I hope you will say “Thanks” to the people who have stepped in to help you solve a mystery or problem in your life.

I not only said thanks to Mark, but I also sent an email to his boss to express my appreciation for Mark’s help and guidance in solving my problem.   I hope my brief note will result in some recognition or reward for my new hero named Mark.

 Pastor Mark Hopper is from the Evangelical Free Church of Diamond Bar, 3255 South Diamond Bar Blvd.  Sunday services are 9 a.m. and 10:45 a.m.  For more information, call (909) 594-7604 or visit http://www.efreedb.org.