Nancy Stoops and Midnight

By Nancy Stoops

I have always believed there is a blueprint for our lives.  I know that we are meant to live in a way that shows the best version of ourselves.  I believe with my heart and soul that our creator doesn’t want us to settle and only be part of who we really could be.

I think sometimes we settle out of fear and self–doubt, but then we only sort of live the life we are intended to.  To me, there is nothing sadder than this because there is so much more to most people – and so much more potential for a great life!

I mean, what do you really have to lose by digging deeper and going after the life that you were intended to live?  You might actually be happy and fulfilled and live the life that you have always dreamed about.

I also think that many people feel that they aren’t deserving of a better life.  I am here to tell you that you are wrong, and to stop throwing away the gift of life.  Make today the day you stop making excuses and finally make a decision to get out of your own way.

I know how hard change is, but I also think it’s harder to come to the end of your life and be filled with regret.

So right now, write down the life you want vs. the life you have, look at the gaps, and think about what you need to do to change the way you live.  Start by setting some realistic goals that you can meet.

Learn to be patient with yourself, because the kind of changes I’m asking you to make will not occur over night.  These changes will occur, however, if you are tenacious and have faith in yourself and focus on growing into the best version of you!

This article was written by Nancy Stoops M.A., M.F.T.  Nancy is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist.  She has a private practice in Diamond Bar and is currently accepting new clients; she is also a motivational speaker who can inspire your employees or group members.  Nancy runs free family support groups, including a group on loss for seniors, and groups on how to manage anger. For more information about any of these services feel free to contact her at (909) 229-0727, or via email at nancyjstoops@verizon.net.  Nancy’s books, “Midnight the Therapy Dog,” and “Live, Heal and Grow,” are available at Amazon.com.