Road Trip (Part Two)

By Pastor Mark Hopper

Pastor Mark Hopper Diamond Bar

Pastor Mark Hopper

Recently I shared about my memories of driving from Arizona to San Diego for family vacations when I was a kid.  It was a long, hot drive across the desert to get to Mission Bay in cool, beautiful San Diego.

My first article reminded me of another “Road Trip,” when I was in graduate school in Dallas, Texas.  Our first child was born in October, and we were hoping to drive home to Arizona to celebrate Christmas with our parents.

Since our car was not very reliable and we did not have a lot of money for gas, we asked my wife’s sister and her husband if we could carpool with them.  They lived at Fort Riley Kansas at that time, so they drove south and picked us up in Dallas.

It seemed like a good idea at the time, but I didn’t realize that they were bringing their large Irish Setter with them.  The result was that my wife and her sister sat in the front seat along with my brother-in-law, who was driving.  I rode in the back seat with the Irish Setter.

I know this sounds terrible, but we were not required to use car seats for infants and children in those days.  So my wife and her sister took turns holding our two-month old son on their laps in the front seat, while I shared the back seat with the dog.

The dog’s name was Shadrach, like one of the men found in the Bible, in the book of Daniel, Chapter 1.

Shadrach was a good dog.  He had a friendly temperament and was pretty obedient.  He was also a big dog, and he liked to lean on people.  He was a leaner.  He took up three-fourths of the back seat, and I was always squished against the door.

It is over 1,000 miles from Dallas to Phoenix.  It usually takes two days to drive that distance.  I rode in the back seat with that big dog leaning on me for two days.  It was a road trip that I have not been able to forget.

There is a verse in the Bible that says, “Be humble and gentle, patient and tolerant with one another in love,” (Ephesians 4:2).  It took a lot of patience and tolerance to endure driving 1,000 miles to Arizona, and another 1,000 miles back to Texas,

You may find yourself in an unexpected or uncomfortable situation that you did not foresee.  You may have people leaning on you.  It may be that the only thing you can do is be humble and patient as you endure the situation.

Ask God to give you the strength to complete the journey.

Pastor Mark Hopper is from the Evangelical Free Church of Diamond Bar, 3255 South Diamond Bar Ave. Sunday services are 9 a.m. and 10:45 a.m. For more information, call (909) 594-7604 or visit http://www.efreedb.org.

They Call Me Coach

Coach-Mike-Green-Graphic-WEBBy Mike Green

There are few job titles in this world that are absolute. Doctor, Chef and Nurse are a few that come to mind. With the exception of Doctor, you rarely hear someone say, “Hello, Nurse,” in passing on the street.

To me, my job title of “Coach” is by far the best! Being called Coach by players, friends, parents and peers is quite an honor. I feel pride every time I hear it. However, anyone can be called Coach regardless of experience, knowledge or education.

The great thing about being called Coach, is once you’re a Coach, you’re always a Coach. You could have coached a single season and those players will always remember you as Coach.

There are good coaches and bad coaches. The type of coach you’re remembered as is entirely in your control. To be a coach that is respected you must provide respect. If you’re enjoying yourself, your players will also. The rewards of being a brief part of a young life are simply invaluable.

Being a Coach is a privilege, and the memories you gain will last a lifetime. If you have spare time and your child is participating in an activity that requires a coach, take a chance and join in.  You never know…it just may transform your life!

Mike Green is a coach for The Sports Family Club, a website dedicated to enriching the lives of children through sports and activities.

 

Eastvale’s Sharyn Link Is Woman Of The Year

By Jennifer Jester-Madrigal

Eastvale – On Mon., Mar. 9, at a special Assembly ceremony at the State Capitol, Assemblyman Eric Linder (R-Corona) honored Sharyn Louise Link as the Woman of the Year for the 60th Assembly District of California.

According to a press release, “Mrs. Link was instrumental in the founding of the City of Eastvale, and continues to work on behalf of her Riverside County community.”

“For the young city of Eastvale, Sharyn is one of the pillars of the community,” said Linder.  “Instead of out front, she is always in the background and willing to do anything she can to help.  A true unsung hero, she is truly deserving of this recognition.”

Link is married to Eastvale’s current Mayor Pro Tem, Bill Link.  They have both been active community members, most especially in the establishment and incorporation of Eastvale in 2010.

Link is currently the Executive Director of the Eastvale Community Foundation, and she has worked tirelessly with the City Council and local residents to meet the needs of the City. During her tenure, the Foundation’s reserves have grown from $38, to more than $25,000.  Through fundraisers and golf tournaments, these numbers continue to grow. Most recently, the Foundation has successfully taken over Eastvale’s Military Banner Program.

According to Linder’s office, the Woman of the Year ceremony is held annually and celebrates California’s extraordinary women.  The first ceremony was held in 1987 to commemorate Women’s History Month.

Assemblyman Eric Linder (R-Corona) represents the 60th Assembly District in the California Legislature, which includes the communities of Corona, Eastvale, Jurupa Valley, Norco, and Riverside.

Feeling Safe Above The Tavern

By Michael Armijo

My grief counseling session in the office above a little tavern has concluded for the day, and once again, I am moved.

I love to talk to people and share life experiences; it’s like reaching for the light.  Bright and vivid rays project from others as they share love and friendship, and I enjoy hearing other perspectives on life.

Recently someone shared with me that they felt safe when they spend time with me. I was happy that I could make someone feel that way in a platonic relationship. When you’re dating and feel safe, it’s usually love that provides protective feelings.  But if you subtract the love and can still make someone feel safe, to me, that means you are generally a good person. I feel like I am, and have held onto that concept and carried it around for a while.

While in therapy, we talked about the verbal and physical abuse my siblings and I suffered as children.  And then that concept of safety slipped into the conversation.

“Michael, when was the last time you felt safe?” my therapist asked.

I sat there silent.My mind spun around with images of the different stages of my life.  I saw flashes of particular times and places as they ripped past my eyes.

I realized that I couldn’t remember the last time I felt safe. I didn’t even know how to describe what it felt like to feel safe. It was just a concept that was too far away for me to understand.

I believe these feelings have come up mainly because my mom is ill and may never recover.  And generally, moms have the ability to make a child feel safe.  Now that my mom may be leaving us, that feeling of safety she brings has already begun to depart. She is here physically, but mentally and emotionally her dementia is starting to rob us all of her presence and the safety it brings.

So another obstacle comes into my life. Another hurdle to leap, another bullet to dodge. Another situation that requires me to overcome while trying to continue to “keep moving forward.”

I’m sitting outside the tavern, admiring the serenity of the tall trees.  I am enjoying the moment, and for now, I will try to embrace the place that I am in; serene and quite, like the trees.  Right now I am at peace.  There is no turmoil, no expectations of me.  As I close my eyes and shut out the rest of the world, right here in this moment…I am safe.

Community Events

Staff Reports

UPCOMING EVENTS:

Kids’ Night Out

When:  Apr. 18; May 16; Jun. 20; Jul. 18; 6 to 9 p.m.

Where:  Chino Youth Museum, 13191 6th St., Chino

Details:  Participants enjoy a fun Saturday evening at the Museum while parents enjoy a nice evening out.  Art projects, games, dinner – all with a caring staff.  Ages 4 to 10.  $12 members/$15 general.  Pre-registration is required.

Contact: (909) 334.3270 during normal operating hours, Wed. – Sun., 10 a.m. to 4 p.m.; or visit www.chinoyouthmuseum.com.

11th Annual Intergenerational Art Show

When:  Apr. 20 – 24, 8 a.m. to 5 p.m.

Where:  Walnut Senior Center, 21215 La Puente Road

Details:  Group exhibition featuring mix mediums including oil, watercolor, photography, writings, jewelry and more.  This event is free, open to the public, and artist submissions are currently being accepted.

Contact:  Walnut Senior Center, (909) 598-6200

Pomona Inner City Homeless Ministry Dinner

When:  The 4th Saturday monthly: April 25, May 23, June 27, July 25, etc.

Where:  First Baptist Church of Pomona, 601 N. Garey Ave., Pomona

Details:  Come help serve the homeless and economically disadvantaged at monthly dinners.  Volunteers meet in E202 (2nd Floor) at 12 noon for prayer/devotion, followed by orientation, clothing and hygiene kit distribution, and instruction for serving dinner to the homeless.  Ministry ends by 4:30 p.m.

Diamond Bar’s 22nd Annual Wine Soiree

When:  Sun., Apr. 26

Where:  Diamond Bar Center; 1600 Grand Ave.

Details:  Wine tastings, delicious foods, benefit auction and more!  All proceeds benefit the Diamond Bar Library.  Tickets: $60 advance; $65 at the door.

Contact:  Tickets available at the DB Library and Basically Books, 21800 Copley Drive; and online at dblibraryfriends.org.  Call (909) 861-2002.  21 and over only.

First Friday Food Trucks

When:  May 1; June 5; July 3; Aug. 7; Sept. 11; Oct. 2; Nov. 6; Dec. 4

Where:  WVUSD, Parking Lot, 880 S. Lemon Ave., Walnut

Details:  Enjoy gourmet food, great weather and good friends while supporting education!  Truck line-up:  The Slummin’ Gourmet; Piaggio; Me So Hungry; Street Food; Bakery Truck.

Peddler’s Market

When:  Sat., May 2, 8 a.m. to 1 p.m.

Where: Walnut Senior Center, 21215 La Puente Road

Details:  All residents are encouraged to clean out their cupboards, closets, garages and become a vendor.  18×18’ booths are just $35 ($45 including table/2 chairs)

Contact:  Walnut Senior Center, (909) 598-6200

Chino Corporate Challenge

When:  May 2 – 15

Where:  City of Chino

Details:  Commit your company and yourself to a healthier lifestyle by joining the two week event where company teams can complete with other local businesses in a variety of games, including Kickball, Bunco, Softball.

Contact:  Carolyn Owens, Community Center, (909) 334-3258; email communityservices@cityofchino.org; or visit the website at www.chinocorporatechallenge.com

Irwindale 35th Annual Golf Tournament

When:  Thurs., May 7; 10 a.m. Registration; 11:30 a.m. Shotgun Start; 5:30 p.m. Catered Reception Dinner

Where:  Sierra La Verne Country Club

Details:  The tournament is open to every level of golfer and offers an invigorating day of business networking, socializing and sporting fun. Registration is limited to 144 players and sells out every year.

Contact:  Call the Chamber office at (626) 960-6606, or visit http://www.irwindalechamber.org

 

REGULAR EVENTS:

Alcohol and Addiction Intervention Information

When: Third Tuesday, monthly; 6 p.m.

Where:  Aurora Charter Oak Hospital, 1161 E. Covina Blvd., Covina

Details:  Free information sessions about the intervention process, a powerful tool to combat alcoholism and addiction.  Attendees can expect to learn what the intervention process consists of, when an intervention is appropriate, and what local resources are available.  Space is limited and reservations are recommended.

Contact:  Call (626) 859-5269, or visit http://www.charteroakhospital.com.

Free Acupuncture for Veterans, Active Military, First Responders

When: Every Tuesday at 5 p.m.

Where: 12598 Central Avenue, Unit 113, Chino, CA 91710.

Cost: Free

Contact: (909) 590-4183 or http://www.healingcirclecommunityacupuncture.com

Jack Newe’s Farmers Market sponsored by SGV Regional Chamber of Commerce

When: Every Saturday from 8 a.m. to 2 p.m.

Where: Mt. San Antonio College Campus, Parking Lot B, 1100 N. Grand Avenue, Walnut CA 91789

Cost: Free Admission/Parking

Features: Seasonal organic produce, breads and cakes, olive oils, cheese and spreads, a variety of nursery plants, hand-crafted items and jewelry, fresh-popped Kettle Corn and grilled food plates.

Contact: (909) 869-0701

Courts Deny Walnut’s Filing Against Mt. SAC

Staff Reports

Walnut – On April 1, the Los Angeles County Superior Court issued a denial of the City of Walnut’s application for a temporary restraining order and preliminary injunction against Mt. San Antonio Community College, and their construction of a forthcoming parking structure.

According to Jill Dolan, MPA, Director of Public Affairs for Mt. SAC, not only was the temporary restraining order denied, but the Court also ruled that the City has not shown that it is likely to prevail on the merits concerning the zoning issues, and, as such, did not set a hearing for a preliminary injunction on the matter.

“The Court ruled that ‘the City acknowledges that its involvement with the project is limited to review of improvements to the sidewalks, curb cuts, and other street improvements,’” said Dolan.

As recently as the Walnut City Council meeting on Mar. 25, some residents of the Timberline neighborhood urged City officials to move toward litigation against Mt. SAC, citing that the imminent parking structure would “increase traffic congestion, noise pollution, air pollution and ruin the backyard views of many of the nearby houses.”  These are the same issues that have come to the forefront of Council meetings for some time.

Representatives from Mt. SAC have said that during the planning stages of this project, they have worked with the City of Walnut.  Mt. SAC met with the City planning and engineering staffs, and in 2007 presented a plan for the structure to the college’s Board of Trustees.  The college also submitted environmental impact reports to the City, as required by the California Environmental Quality Act as early as 2002 – with updates in 2005, 2008 and 2012.  The California Division of the State Architect’s office made the final decision to approve the parking structure.

Despite working with City, Walnut’s City Attorney, Michael Montgomery, made it very clear to residents attending the Mar. 11 Council meeting, that the City would likely start litigation against Mt. SAC to halt the parking structure to appease the Timberline residents.  Montgomery said the college’s officials exhibited “absolutely arrogance” by refusing to read two separate letters about amending the location of the structure,

In a recent statement, Dr. William Scroggins, President and CEO of Mt. SAC, said, “The court ruling validates that Mt. San Antonio College’s parking structure project has been appropriately designed.  The structure is a necessity for the students and the broader community we serve.”

And with that, 1650 additional parking spaces – 13 years in the making – will ultimately benefit the students who spend copious amounts of time driving around the campus trying to find a spot to park.

The parking structure is expected to be completed by Jan. 2017.

Haven Homes, Inc. Foster Family Agency

Making a difference in the life of a child.

By K.P. Sander

Eastvale – According to national statistics, more than 500,000 American children are in foster care.  These children are taken away when their families are unable to care for them, usually surrounding a crisis.  Currently, there are not enough foster families to take these children in, let alone mentor them, provide for them, or simply give them hope.

Statistics also show that if nothing were to change from the way it is now, by the year 2020, more than 10.5 million children will spend some time in foster care; more than 300,000 children will age out of the foster care system, some in poor health, some will find themselves homeless, and many will be unprepared for further education or the workforce; and 22,500 children will die of abuse or neglect, most before their 5th birthday.

While these are frightening statistics, there are solutions out there.  For Lloyd Held, Ph.D., CEO and Founder of the foster family agency, Haven Homes, Inc., along with his wife, Haydee, Operations Manager and co-Founder, seeing to the welfare of children is a way of life.

“We care for the children and provide constant support for the Foster Parents,” say Haydee, a nurse, whose expertise is in child care.  “If the parents feel supported, the minors in the home feel safe and happy, and the placement will be successful.”

Haven Homes, Inc. is a Christian-based, foster agency that recruits potential parents who will become qualified candidates.  They train them with stringent guidelines, and place children in their homes.  They also assign a Social Worker to manage their case, providing 24/7 support and weekly (or more, as needed) visits.  The ultimate goal is not only to facilitate success, but place the children in the best environment possible.

Lloyd, who has been a Social Worker for over 31 years and holds a Ph.D. in Marriage and Family Counseling, founded Haven Homes on the premise that families are the cornerstone of society.  Compassion is what drives the business, and he believes that providing these foster children with a consistent family life will help them develop the life skills that will allow them to function as valuable members of the community later in life.

Becoming a Foster Parent is not just a public service, it’s a privilege.  As a Foster Parent, you can help to significantly change a life for the better – and break an unhappy cycle – causing a positive ripple effect for generations to come.

Haydee says, “As Christians, it is our duty to be a good example to children; this is a mission field that has not been explored enough.”

Haven Homes is helping to provide that mission field.

“When children get the right tools and are taught how to use them, they will overcome obstacles in their paths.  As parents and foster parents, we have to plant those seeds.  The rest is up to the Lord,” Haydee continues.

The Held’s work is carried out with the philosophy of believing in what you do, and pursuing it until your reach your goal.

If you believe you would be a good candidate, and would like to make a positive difference in the life of a child – or even a medically-fragile child or sibling group that may not otherwise have a chance – contact Haven Homes, Inc.

Become a Foster Parent: You can Make a Difference! 

Haven Homes, Inc.  Foster Family Agency is located at 12321 Magnolia Avenue, Suite B, in Riverside.  They can be reached at (877) 495-5439, or visit them on Facebook at facebook.com/havenhomesinc. Insurance programs cover health, dental and therapy services; and expense reimbursement programs are available for Foster Parents.

Senate Republicans Welcome Emergency Drought Regulations

Staff Reports

Sacramento – Following Governor Brown’s recent declaration of a drought emergency in California, Senate Minority Leader Bob Huff (R-Diamond Bar) issued the following statement:

“California’s lack of rainfall, coupled with the inability over the last several decades to expand our desperately needed water storage capabilities, has led us to this moment in history. Senate Republicans agree that we all must do our part to reduce water consumption in California.

“That said, we urge the governor and legislative Democrats to work with us in the bipartisan spirit promised at our recent press conference.  This crisis should not be manipulated to impose new emergency powers that would violate the personal and constitutional rights of California families.   Let’s make sure we’re doing all we can to conserve our water so that we have what’s necessary for our families, our farms and our environment.

“Republicans have been fighting for more water storage for years so that we could capture rain during the wet seasons in order to offset the dry summer months.  The Proposition 1 water bond passed by voters last year included $2.7 billion for water storage. The Legislature must clear the way to ensure those funds are ready when it’s time to break ground on two new reservoirs that will help  provide a reliable water source to all of California for future generations.”

Senator Huff serves as the Senate Minority Leader and represents the 29th Senate District covering portions of Los Angeles, Orange and San Bernardino Counties. Follow Senator Huff on Twitter @bobhuff99.

PUSD Stabbing

Staff Reports

Pomona – On Tues., Mar. 24, at approximately 12:25 p.m., Pomona Police Officers responded to the Pomona Unified School District Office regarding a stabbing.

The victim, Amy Blevins, 39, of Pomona, was walking to her vehicle when she met up with the suspect, and exchanged pleasantries.  According to the Pomona Police Department, the suspect then stabbed Blevins and fled the scene.  Offers were unable to locate him at that time.

Blevins was transported to a local hospital for the treatment of non-life threatening injuries.

Subsequently, the suspect – Jonathan Serrano, 22, of Pomona, was located and arrested.  At his arraignment on Thurs. Apr. 2, Serrano pled guilty for assault with a deadly weapon.  He was sentenced to two years in State prison.

Have You Seen Betty?

 

Photo courtesy: Riverside Sheriff's Department

Photo courtesy: Riverside Sheriff’s Department

Riverside County Sheriff’s Department

Riverside – Video surveillance captured Betty Toepfer exiting the RTA bus at the downtown Riverside terminal on Wednesday, April 8, 2015, at 9:45 A.M. She was last seen alone, on foot, leaving the bus terminal towards the area of University and Market. In addition to downtown Riverside and the city of Jurpua Valley, it is possible Toepfer may have also taken the bus to the Galleria at Tyler located in the city of Riverside.

Actual surveillance images from 04/08/15 show Toepfer wearing a teal and black colored zip-up jacket, dark pants, black and white converse style tennis shoes, and carrying a medium-sized black purse without a shoulder strap.

On Wednesday, April 8, 2015, at 10:45 PM, deputies from the Jurupa Valley Police Department responded to the 8300 block of 45th Street, in the city of Jurupa Valley in reference to a report of a missing adult. Deputies learned Betty Jean Toepfer, an 87 year old elderly female was last seen at her residence on Wednesday, April 8, 2015, at 6:30 A.M.

Toepfer does not drive and is known to take the bus as her primary means of transportation. An extensive search of the area was conducted but Toepfer has not been located. Investigators assigned to the Jurupa Valley Station arrived on scene and assumed the investigation.

Betty Toepfer is described as a white elderly female who stands 5 foot 3 inches tall and weighs 115 pounds with blond hair and blue eyes possibly wearing a blazer type jacket or sweater and carrying a black purse. According to Betty’s family she wears a hearing aid and has slight memory loss. Toepfer does not have a cell phone and frequents the Jurupa Valley Library located at 8660 44th Street in the city of Jurupa Valley, and the downtown Riverside area.

A Silver Alert was issued through the California Highway Patrol in an effort to locate Toepfer.

Anyone with information regarding Betty Jean Toepfer’s whereabouts is urged to contact the Riverside County Sheriff’s Department at (951) 776-1099.

Photo courtesy: Riverside Sheriff's Department

Photo courtesy: Riverside Sheriff’s Department

Photo courtesy: Riverside Sheriff's Department

Photo courtesy: Riverside Sheriff’s Department

The #1 Killer Of Teens Is 100% Preventable

What do you consider lethal?

Photo Courtesy: Google

Photo Courtesy: Google

Staff Reports 

Southern California – During California Teen Safe Driving Week, held April 1 – 7, the California Highway Patrol (CHP), California Office of Traffic Safety, and Impact Teen Drivers continued to emphasize the most deadly impact to teen drivers – reckless and distracted driving. Moreover, teens learned that their number one killer is 100 percent preventable, if drivers and passengers make good decisions.

“People are starting to understand that everyday behaviors, such as texting, eating, applying make-up, or reaching for something, can be lethal when done behind the wheel,” said Dr. Kelly Browning, Executive Director of Impact Teen Drivers. “In a recent study, over 98 percent of people reported that texting behind the wheel is dangerous, but 75 percent still report doing it. The propensity for people to rationalize distracted driving behavior – the ‘not me’ mentality – is a big part of the problem.”
“One of the most difficult tasks for any officer is notifying parents that their teenager was killed in a traffic collision, and it is even worse when the crash was totally preventable,” CHP Commissioner Joe Farrow said. “Young drivers may not realize the magnitude of the aftermath of a fatal collision, and the emotional toll it takes. It is up to all of us – family, friends, experienced drivers – to set the right example, avoid distractions behind the wheel, and focus on our own driving.”
Impact Teen Drivers uses a multifaceted approach to educate teens and communities about the dangers of reckless and distracted driving. Through the “What Do You Consider Lethal?” program, teens are engaged and empowered to make good decisions behind the wheel and spread the safe driving message to their peers. In Parent-Teen Workshops, parents are taught that they are the primary influencer of their teen’s driving attitudes and behaviors, and that “Do as I say, not as I do” doesn’t work.
During California Teen Safe Driving Week, law enforcement agencies emphasized the need for a strong combination of education and enforcement to change driving attitudes and behaviors. They also stressed that distracted driving injuries and fatalities are 100 percent preventable.
“We need to make distracted driving socially unacceptable, like driving under the influence of alcohol,” said Rhonda Craft, Director of the California Office of Traffic Safety. “By combining education and enforcement to prevent distracted driving, we will make the roads safer for everyone.”
California Teen Safe Driving Week marked the beginning of National Distracted Driving Awareness Month.

For more information, visit ImpactTeenDrivers.org.

Human Remains Found In Forest

Hiker finds Big Bear missing person from 2014

Photo Courtesy: Facebook.com

(Photo Courtesy: Facebook.com) Brian McCamish

Staff Reports

Big Bear City – Back on Fri., Mar. 27, a hiker reported finding what he believed to be human remains in the forested area north of Myrtle Avenue and North Shore Drive in Big Bear City.

According to the San Bernardino County Sheriff’s Department, Deputies and Detectives from the Big Bear station responded to the area and confirmed that the remains were human. A Homicide Detail was requested and an investigation was immediately launched.

On Tues., Apr. 7, the Coroner’s Office released a positive identification on the remains as Brian McCamish, 60, a resident of Big Bear who was reported missing on Sept. 23, 2014.  At this time, the cause and manner of McCamish’s death is undetermined.

Anyone having information regarding this matter is requested to contact the Detective Bureau of the Big Bear Sheriff’s Station at (909) 866-0100; or Sgt. John Gaffney of the Sheriff’s Homicide Detail at (909) 387-3589. Information can also be reported anonymously by calling WE-TIP at (800) 78-CRIME or online at www.wetip.com.

Eastvale Chamber’s Official Newsletter

Read the Eastvale Chamber’s Official Newsletter in full size by clicking the picture below!

Things to see: Eastvale Chamber Connection Breakfast at Buffalo Wild Wings, Upcoming Events in Eastvale, and Details of the Open Director Seat for the Eastvale Chamber of Commerce Board of Directors.  2015-04 ChamberNewsletter-WEB

Straight Talk With Danice

By Danice Akiyoshi, N.D.

Dr. Danice Akiyoshi, Naturopathic Doctor, Coaching, Counseling

Dr. Danice Akiyoshi

Dear Dr. Akiyoshi:

I have a friend who has trouble keeping a job.  His social skills are terrible.  I have known him since we were kids and he has always been socially inept.  I give him odd jobs to do so he can earn a little money, but I can see he is getting worse.  I have to instruct him over and over.  I know he needs some kind of help, but I feel this is a sensitive subject.  He still lives at home with his mother, and he is 38 years old.  Do you think it would be rude on my part to speak to his sister?  I’ve known her since we were kids, too. I can’t believe they haven’t done anything to help him function better.  Maybe this is none of my business.  I’d like your advice, please.

-Ernie E.

Dear Ernie:

You are concerned about your childhood friend enough to give him odd jobs to help him stay afloat.  This shows me that your heart is in the right place and puts you in the perfect position to approach your friend’s sister.  Sometimes when a family has a member that has extra needs, they go into denial.  Or perhaps they are used to his limitations, so they no longer have the ability to see how odd he may be appearing to the public at large.  If he is 38 and still lives with his mother, something’s up.  This subject is probably too big for you to take on, but yes, please do notify his family of your concerns.  People who have severely poor social skills are often in danger of being bullied or harmed in a variety of ways.  Make that call.  Good Luck.

-Danice Akiyoshi, N.D.

Danice Akiyoshi is a Naturopathic Doctor and the head of Candid Coaching Service. She offers personal coaching services relating to all types of issues and concerns. This is a letter she received from an anonymous reader. To send a question to Danice, email her at straighttalk@candidcoachingservices.com. You can also visit her website at http://www.candidcoachingservices.com.

Visit Basically BOOKS in Diamond Bar

Staff Reports

Diamond Bar – Are you looking for a great volunteer experience in Diamond Bar?  Basically BOOKS, the Friends of the Diamond Bar Library non-profit bookstores, are friendly places serving the community as a resource for school, work and pleasure reading at exceptionally low prices.

There are many special sales throughout the month, so stop by one or both of their beautiful locations. Right now, they are featuring some desirable Star Trek memorabilia in stock.  If you are a Star Trek fan, you will enjoy seeing what they have.

Bookstore Manager, Peggy Murphy, is actively looking for new volunteers to staff both locations (23447 Golden Springs Road, near the intersection of Golden Springs and Diamond Bar Blvd.; and the bookstore at the Diamond Bar Library, 21800 Copley Drive, across from the AQMD Building).

All proceeds from both Basically BOOKS stores directly benefit the Diamond Bar Library.  For more information, please contact Peggy Murphy at (909) 938-0382, or email peggymurphy08@gmail.com.

 

Date 2015 Time Activity Location Remarks
Sat., Apr. 18 9 a.m. – 3:30 p.m. Buck-A-Bag Book Sale Basically BOOKS

(23447 Golden Springs Dr.)

 Great books at rock-bottom prices!
Sun., Apr. 26 4 p.m. 22nd Annual Wine Soirée Diamond Bar Center

(1600 Grand Ave.)

 SAVE THE DATE FOR THE SOCIAL EVENT OF THE SEASON.
Tues., Apr. 21 7 p.m. Discussion Group Basically BOOKS The Whistling Season by Ivan Doig

 
Sat., May 19 9 a.m. – 3:30 p.m. Buck-A-Bag Book
Sale		 Basically BOOKS Great books at rock-bottom prices!
Tues., May 26 7 p.m. Book Discussion Group Basically BOOKS The Virtues of Oxygen by Susan Schoenberger.
October 2015 October is Read Together Diamond Bar 2015 month!
Sat., Oct. 24 2 p.m. An Afternoon with Author Lisa See Diamond Bar Library

Windmill Room

 Best-selling author Lisa See visits Diamond Bar as part of Read Together Diamond Bar 2015

 

 

PUSD Launches High-Tech Science Lab

$100,000 Todd Family donation also funds scholarships and atrium

(Photo Courtesy: Juliette Funes) La Verne Science and Technology students learn to conduct science experiments from students from Palomares Academy of Health Sciences in the school’s new science lab.

(Photo Courtesy: Juliette Funes)
La Verne Science and Technology students learn to conduct science experiments from students from Palomares Academy of Health Sciences in the school’s new science lab.

By Juliette Funes

Pomona – Two Pomona Unified schools have funded a memorial scholarship and constructed high-tech science labs for elementary and high school students – including space for a robotics program – thanks to a $100,000 grant aimed at strengthening science, technology, engineering and math (STEM) programs.

La Verne Science and Technology Charter School and Palomares Academy of Health Sciences each received a $50,000 endowment from the Todd Family Foundation to establish science and technology facilities and programs. The donations were made in memory of Dr. Shane Todd, a scientist and Pomona Unified alumnus, who died in 2012.

“These new science facilities are generating sparks of creativity in young minds,” Pomona Unified School District Board of Education President, Andrew Wong, said. “Thanks to the Todd family’s generosity, we are reinforcing our commitment to educate students in cutting-edge and in-demand fields.”

La Verne Science and Technology, a charter school focused on STEM programs, used the funding to build a modern science lab, which is open after school for its robotics programs. The school will continue to expand the use of this new science lab. Plans are in the works to establish a computer coding program.

The facility, dedicated as the “Dr. Shane Todd Science Lab,” is a teacher- and student-friendly space that features digital microscopes, computers for research, a teacher demonstration area, student work stations that foster collaboration and the latest in interactive science notebooks.

“These leading-edge learning tools are inspiring our students to explore science in ways that weren’t possible before,” La Verne Science and Technology Principal Dolores Lobaina said.  “Through a plethora of new, hands-on activities, our students are learning how to tackle the hard questions.”

Palomares Academy of Health Sciences divided its share of the donation among several science-based projects, including a robotics program in its new Dr. Shane Todd Science Center and an outdoor atrium that encourages students to explore earth sciences.

In honor of Todd – described as a Renaissance Man – Palomares also established a scholarship program in which students submitted designs for a Renaissance Man mural. A reveal of the mural and the first, second and third place winners of the scholarship will be named in May.

“The spirit and inspiration that Dr. Todd has brought to the Palomares Academy is part of his legacy,” Palomares Principal, Camille Ramos-Beal, said. “We are grateful to the Todd family for recognizing Palomares Academy as a beneficiary.”

Superintendent Richard Martinez reinforced the critical role STEM courses serve to equip students for the quickly evolving job market.

“Preparing our students for careers in STEM is a top priority for our District,” Martinez said. “This donation opens up a world of possibilities for discovery and innovation and is preparing our students to become the next generation of leaders.”

 

 

1981 Pomona Cold Case Murder Arrest

Staff Reports

Pomona – On July 2, 1981, a 6-year old male juvenile left his house on his bike to go to a fireworks stand in the city of Anaheim. The child was last seen on his bike near the fireworks stand, which was located near Imperial and Santa Ana Canyon Road, at approximately 5:30 p.m.  At approximately 7:20 p.m., the boy’s parents found his bike abandoned in an alley near the fireworks stand.
On July 3, 1981, two construction workers found the child’s lifeless body near 34 Edgebrook Dr. in the city of Pomona. The Los Angeles County Coroner’s Office determined the child died of asphyxia as a consequence of strangulation. DNA evidence was confirmed and linked to Idaho resident, Kenneth Rasmuson.
On Mar. 27, Pomona Police Department Cold Case Homicide Detectives traveled to Sandpoint Idaho to assist in the arrest Kenneth Rasmuson for the 1981 murder. Members of the Sandpoint Point Police Department, FBI, Los Angeles County Sheriff’s Department Crime Lab, Bonner County District Attorney’s Office and the Anaheim Police Department also assisted with the investigation and subsequent arrest of Kenneth Rasmuson.
Rasmuson is currently in custody at the Bonner County Jail in Sandpoint, and will be extradited back to Pomona where he will face murder charges for the boy’s murder.
Anyone with information regarding this incident is encouraged to contact the Pomona Police Department at (909) 620-2085. If you prefer to provide information anonymously, you may call “Crime Stoppers” at 1-800-222-TIPS (8477).

Farm Fresh Eggs At Voortman’s Ranch

(Photo Courtesy: Voortman’s Egg Ranch) The Voortman Family circa 1956. Voortman’s Egg Ranch is located at 13960 Grove Avenue in Ontario. You can reach them at (909) 465-1319. They are open Monday through Saturday, 8 a.m. to 5 p.m.

(Photo Courtesy: Voortman’s Egg Ranch)
The Voortman Family circa 1956. Voortman’s Egg Ranch is located at 13960 Grove Avenue in Ontario. You can reach them at (909) 465-1319. They are open Monday through Saturday, 8 a.m. to 5 p.m.

By K.P. Sander

Ontario – Voortman’s Egg Ranch has been in the business of providing farm fresh eggs to friends and visitors to the local area for over 60 years. Originally from Bellflower, the Voortman family – who has always been in the egg ranching business – moved their operation to Ontario in 1951.

Voortman’s has a small-town farm ambiance, with the latest in technology.  Their happy chickens are enjoying their newly remodeled home; and their egg-processing machine can handle about 36,000 eggs per hour at its peak. If the average bird lays one egg about every 26 hours, that equals a lot of chickens at the Voortman ranch!

Did you know that you can tell how fresh an egg is by how high the yolk stands up in the frying pan after you crack it?  Voortman’s will have your over-easies standing tall.  Their fresh eggs are the highest in quality, with dark, nutrient-dense yolks.  You will immediately notice a difference in your cooking and baking.

Have you ever wondered how long the eggs in the grocery stores have actually been sitting around?  Despite the use-by date, there is really no way to know how long ago they were produced.  With Voortman’s, the eggs are selected daily, on site, and readied for you in their store.

Third-generation egg rancher, Eddie Voortman, says, “We are a local, family-owned business that provides fresh, quality products to the public.”

Customers of Voortman’s rave about their all natural, cage free eggs, touting the freshness, and great pricing.  One customer said, “They make the fluffiest scrambled eggs!”

The eggs come in all sizes and colors, depending on your needs.  Whatever you choose, you will not be disappointed.

Voortman’s is centrally located just minutes from Chino at 13960 Grove Avenue in Ontario (just north of Edison).  You can reach Voortman’s at (909) 465-1319; and Like them on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/pages/Voortmans-Egg-Ranch.

Stop by any time Monday through Saturday, 8 a.m. to 5 p.m.

Here We Grow Again

By K.P. Sander

Eastvale – The City of Eastvale is just a youngster in the history of Western Riverside County, but a lot of growth has happened since our little dairy-land became an official city back in October of 2010.

Eastvale has come a long way from the vast cow-speckled landscape of its past.  In fact, there are only 43 cows left (a quick count on a recent drive by), and the Leal property at the corner of Limonite and Hamner – with a very cosmopolitan future – is one of the only major acreages still undeveloped in the 13.1 square miles of the City.

Recently, citizens have enjoyed new businesses at the Marketplace at the Enclave (southwest corner of Archibald and Schleisman), including Great Harvest Bread Company, Juice it Up, and Mes Amies Hair and Nails.  Still on the brink of opening are Lee’s Noodle House, Reflexology Foot Massage and a new Bank of America branch with lanes for drive-through banking.

On the other side of town at Gateway South (on Limonite, just west of the 15 Freeway), Eastvale’s San Antonio Medical Center is putting the finishing touches on its beautiful new building.  Although there have been some delays, a soft opening is scheduled for April, with final completion come May.

One of the best bits of news is the addition of a much needed and much wanted new restaurant.  Wait for it…Panera Bread is coming to town!  Right in the same center with San Antonio Medical Center and 24-Hour Fitness, the bakery-café will be a welcome addition to Eastvale.  Panera says, “We are an everyday oasis for our customers,” and we agree with them – although we are going to have to wait for Christmas to open this present.  It just might be worth the wait.

Walmart is a go, and although still in the planning phases, it is scheduled to break ground where Limonite meets Archibald at some point in the not too distant future.

The biggest project on the horizon is the Leal Master Plan Project.  The City of Eastvale is currently cultivating the Vision, Development and Implementation plans, and the mixed-use town center project could possibly be the flagship of the City.  More details are forthcoming, and the City will continue to provide updates as they become available.

There are not too many cities around where everything is relatively brand new, and although Eastvale is rich in history, it is bright in its infrastructure. With amazing schools and lot of possibilities forthcoming, Eastvale is truly becoming a destination city.