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Create Summer Adventures

Licensed Marriage Family Therapist

Nancy Stoops M.A., M.F.T Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

By Nancy Stoops

School is over for most children and it’s time for some fun and adventure.  Make this the summer you get your children off those electronic devices and outside to have some fun.  Make this the summer where everybody does some hiking in some beautiful scenery and where everybody spends some time in those beach waves or in the pool.  Make some plans for a day trip or if possible, a vacation away.

If you are low on money this summer, be creative about ways to create some fun outside.  We didn’t have lots of money when I was growing up, but I always had fun outside.  I loved when we would grill and eat outside as we would watch the sunset.  I don’t know why food seems to taste better when it is eaten outside.  My mom would even turn on the sprinklers and we would run through them; I thought I was in heaven.  I would also fill my wagon up with all kinds of leaves and rocks and I would put on a mask to pretend I was having an underwater adventure.

We have a huge pool at my home and my grandchildren love the dive sticks that you can purchase at target.  They love when we throw them in and they can dive to the bottom and retrieve them.

We do have some nice hiking trails locally so gather the family and put Fido on a leash for a walk. You can help everybody get more fit this summer.  You can take advantage of the concerts in the park, pack a picnic dinner, or spend a day at the beach.  You could also hop on a train and go south or north even just for the day.  Get everybody outside for some fun and for some adventures this summer!

This article was written by Nancy Stoops M.A., M.F.T.  Nancy is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist.  She has a private practice in Diamond Bar and is currently accepting new clients; she is also a motivational speaker who can inspire your employees or group members.  Nancy runs free family support groups, a group on loss for seniors, and groups on how to manage anger.    For more information about any of these services feel free to contact her at (909) 229-0727.  You may e-mail Nancy at nancyjstoops@verizon.net

IE News: Inmate Missing From SB Camp

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Crestline– AInmate-BWn inmate walked away from a state conservation camp on Tuesday, May 31.

The inmate identified as Chad Ellebracht, 40, was reported missing at around 7:30 a.m. from the Pilot Rock Conservation Camp #15 in the San Bernardino County, officials stated.  Dormitory buildings and the camp perimeter were searched by the camp staff, but were unable to find him. The Camp reported his disappearance to the local law enforcement agencies. He was last seen at a routine inmate count at 5:40 a.m.

Ellebracht has multiple tattoos, including his last name across his upper chest. He weighs about 200 pounds and 5 feet, 11 inches tall. He was finishing a three year sentence, to be released on August 8, for possession of a controlled substance for sale.

If you have any information, please contact California Department of Corrections and Rehabilitation officials camp commander at (909) 338-1950 or the Sierra Conservation Center Watch Commander at (209) 984-5291, ext 5439.

History 101

Photo courtesy: NJ.com

Photo courtesy: NJ.com

First Drive-In Movie Theater Opens

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On June 4 in 1933, eager motorists park their automobiles on the grounds of Park-In Theaters, the first-ever drive-in movie theater, located on Crescent Boulevard in Camden, New Jersey.

Park-In Theaters–the term “drive-in” came to be widely used only later–was the brainchild of Richard Hollingshead, a movie fan and a sales manager at his father’s company, Whiz Auto Products, in Camden. Reportedly inspired by his mother’s struggle to sit comfortably in traditional movie theater seats, Hollingshead came up with the idea of an open-air theater where patrons watched movies in the comfort of their own automobiles. He then experimented in the driveway of his own house with different projection and sound techniques, mounting a 1928 Kodak projector on the hood of his car, pinning a screen to some trees, and placing a radio behind the screen for sound. He also tested ways to guard against rain and other inclement weather, and devised the ideal spacing arrangement for a number of cars so that all would have a view of the screen.

The young entrepreneur received a patent for the concept in May of 1933 and opened Park-In Theaters, Inc. less than a month later, with an initial investment of $30,000. Advertising it as entertainment for the whole family, Hollingshead charged 25 cents per car and 25 cents per person, with no group paying more than one dollar. The idea caught on, and after Hollingshead’s patent was overturned in 1949, drive-in theaters began popping up all over the country. One of the largest was the All-Weather Drive-In of Copiague, New York, which featured parking space for 2,500 cars, a kid’s playground and a full service restaurant, all on a 28-acre lot.

Drive-in theaters showed mostly B-movies–that is, not Hollywood’s finest fare–but some theaters featured the same movies that played in regular theaters. The initially poor sound quality–Hollingshead had mounted three speakers manufactured by RCA Victor near the screen–improved, and later technology made it possible for each car’s to play the movie’s soundtrack through its FM radio. The popularity of the drive-in spiked after World War II and reached its heyday in the late 1950s to mid-60s, with some 5,000 theaters across the country. Drive-ins became an icon of American culture, and a typical weekend destination not just for parents and children but also for teenage couples seeking some privacy. Since then, however, the rising price of real estate, especially in suburban areas, combined with the growing numbers of walk-in theaters and the rise of video rentals to curb the growth of the drive-in industry. Today, fewer than 500 drive-in theaters survive in the United States.

A Dinner To Remember

Pastor Mark Hopper

Pastor Mark Hopper

By Pastor Mark Hopper

My wife and I will be celebrating our 45th wedding anniversary on June 4th.  It is hard to believe that we were married 45 years ago.

We actually met at the beginning of our freshman year at Scottsdale High School in 1964.  I was elected as the freshman class president and she was elected the class secretary.

We became good friends as we worked on Homecoming floats and various class projects.  We enjoyed being with a group of friends as we cheered our hearts out at the school football games and enjoyed high school life in the 1960’s.

However, we didn’t actually start dating until our senior year.  She said that I was too busy dating girls with long blond hair and I didn’t seem to notice this cute red head that would be my future wife!

We continued to date as we went to college at Arizona State University.  As our friendship deepened, it seemed inevitable that one day we would get married.

On my wife’s birthday 45 years ago, we went out for a special dinner at the Camelback Inn overlooking the lights of Phoenix.  It was a perfect setting to give her an engagement ring and ask her to marry me.

Recently, we went back to the Camelback Inn to celebrate our 45th anniversary.  The setting was beautiful and the food was great.  We took time to reflect on our journey together.

We have been very blessed to have four wonderful adult kids and seven grandchildren with another one on the way.   It has been an honor to serve together for over 40 years in two wonderful churches – 13 years in Arizona and 28 years here in Diamond Bar.

When we told the server at the restaurant that we were celebrating our 45th anniversary, he presented us with a special dessert at the end of our meal.  The chef had written “45th Anniversary” on the dessert plate.  We took a picture to capture the moment.  It really was a dinner to remember!

Let me encourage you to make time to express your love an appreciation to your husband or wife.  Make a date and plan a dinner to remember!  You will be glad you did and they will too!

Pastor Mark Hopper is from the Evangelical Free Church of Diamond Bar, 3255 South Diamond Bar Blvd.  Sunday services are 9 a.m. and 10:45 a.m.  For more information, call (909) 594-7604 or visit Efreedb.org.

Click It Or Ticket In Chino

Staff Reports

Chino– In an effort to save lives through increased seat belt use, Chino Police Department will participate in the national Click It or Ticket campaign. With Memorial Day Holiday being one of the busiest weekends to travel, the educational enforcement period was held between May 23rd and June 5th, 2016.

Chino Police Chief, Karen Comstock states, “Time after time, we see the deadly results that come from drivers and passengers refusing to wear a seat belt.” Comstock also states, “Wearing a seat belt is one of the most important steps in increasing survivability in a crash, our job is to stop those who are not buckled up, and to keep them from repeating this potentially deadly mistake.”

The National Highway Traffic Safety Administration (NHTSA) released some research from 2014; nearly half of the 21,022 passenger vehicle occupants killed in crashes nationally was unrestrained. In 2015, research showed that almost 50 percent of occupants of fatal crashes nationwide are not restrained. In other states, fatal crashes due to being unrestrained were at a high of 70 percent. Nationwide, law enforcement agencies are joining the Click It or Ticket campaign to emphasize “Coast to Coast” seat belt safety in all 50 states.

Recent facts highlight the need for increased education, awareness and enforcement, and awareness of seat belt use. Rhonda Craft, Director of the California Office of Traffic Safety, states “We want to make sure that people are buckling up to keep themselves and their families safe.”

For information on the Click It or Ticket campaign, you may visit www.nhtsa.gov/ciot. Additional information regarding traffic enforcement and education programs, you may contact the Traffic Services Unit at (909) 334-3073.

Suzanne Somers Coming To Clarks In Rancho Mirage!

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Rancho Mirage– This Monday, June 6, at noon, Suzanne Somers will be at Clark’s Nutrition in Rancho Mirage! The 69-year-old actress, author, and entrepreneur is coming to Clark’s to speak on toxic-free living; based on her latest book, “Tox-Sick (from toxic to not sick)”.

In conjunction with her appearance, Clark’s will be launching her toxic-free home cleaning supplies in their retail locations.

In 2014, Suzanne was at Clarks to launch her SUZANNE Organics, toxic-free, gluten free, cosmetics and skincare collection. Her cosmetics and skin care line has been a huge success. In fact, Clark’s created what looks like a MAC make-up counter, with free makeovers, in all their locations.

Clark’s Marketing Director, Mike Barnett says, “Suzanne is such a great advocate for health. She has helped women realize that the make-up they put on their face goes into their body with her cosmetic line. Now, she is helping all of us see how to get toxins out of our home with her book and home cleaning products.” Somers book, “Tox-Sick (from toxic to not sick)” will also be available in paperback for the first time at Clarks on Monday.

Suzanne says she chose Clark’s Nutrition to be the exclusive retailer for her cutting edge alternative to chemical based products, because, “Our messages are the same. The partnership with Clark’s is a perfect fit.”

Somers, a Clark’s customer for years in their Rancho Mirage location says, “I met with Ray Clark, the CEO, a true visionary, and I felt his devotion and passion for healthy living. It was a slam-dunk to work with Clarks.”

Barnett says, “This is not some paid endorsement, but a partnership between Suzanne and Clarks to carry a shared vision of helping people live healthier, or as we say at Clarks, ‘Live Better…We Can Help’.”

On Monday June 6, all SUZANNE Organic products will be 20% off.

BPUSD’s Rubio Accused of Violating Board Policies, Recall Suggested

By D. Radillo

Photo courtesy: Blancarubio.com Blanca Rubio, a Baldwin Park Unified School District board member, was recently accused of violating board policies at a BPUSD board meeting.

Photo courtesy: Blancarubio.com
Blanca Rubio, a Baldwin Park Unified School District board member, was recently accused of violating board policies at a BPUSD board meeting.

Baldwin Park – During a February school board meeting, Baldwin Park Unified School District (BPUSD) board member, Blanca Rubio, was accused by a 33-year employee of violating school board policies and a laundry list of wrongdoings, which include: her husband was given a job and promotion; for allegedly covering up his arrest for being under the influence and possession of a narcotic; replacing the district’s law firm with another who had given her campaign donations, and for soliciting donations to current school board vendors for her Assembly seat campaign, according to a youtube video of the board meeting: (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yCrzY5YwMeQ&feature=youtu.be&app=desktop)

Mike Orona, who served as an employee for the BPUSD for over 33 years, accused Rubio of violating school board policies and questioned her “personal ethics” when she allegedly solicited campaign funds for her Assembly election, which is this Tuesday, June 7, 2016. The solicitation was to a current BPSUD school vendor. “I was contacted by some contractors who perform services for the Baldwin Park School District. Blanca Rubio personally solicited them for money. Board policy strictly prohibits them from this type of activity. So again, you talk about unethical practices and conflict of interest,” Orona added at the meeting.

“I am personally questioning her ethics and personal judgment regarding her husband John Lopez,” Orona stated at the board meeting. He was referring to the rehiring of Lopez while Rubio was a school board member.

Orona goes on to accuse Rubio of violating educational code 1090. “This action may be punishable as a crime,” Orona added. “GOVERNMENT CODE SECTION 1090 1090.(a) Members of the Legislature, state, county, district, judicial district, and city officers or employees shall not be financially interested in any contract made by them in their official capacity, or by anybody or board of which they are members. Nor shall state, county, district, judicial district, and city officers or employees be purchasers at any sale or vendors at any purchase made by them in their official capacity.” Orona was referring to this code as a conflict of interest and violation of the Government Ed Code as Ms. Rubio was a board member during her husband’s rehire and soon after promotion.

Orona goes on to point out John Lopez’ arrest for a controlled substance.

“This individual, John Lopez (Rubio’s husband), was recently arrested at Margaret Heath Elementary for being under the influence and in possession of dangerous and narcotic drugs,” Orona said. He then accuses Rubio of “trying to cover it up.”

“(During this arrest) where was Blanca during the danger and violent threats to the school,” Orona said. “She chose the option of remaining silent and prevent the public of knowing this was her husband,” he said.

Orona concluded with the request of starting a recall against Rubio and requested that the political leaders in attendance begin an investigation. In addition, Orona said he would send copies to the District Attorney’s office and request an investigation.

The youtube video of the February School Board meeting can be seen here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yCrzY5YwMeQ&feature=youtu.be&app=desktop

Blanca Rubio and Mike Orona both did not respond to emailed questions prior to press time.

Chino Stater Bros. Plaza For Sale

Staff Reports

Photo courtesy: Shopping Center Business The Stater Bros. Plaza is for sale, which is located off Schaefer Ave. and Euclid Ave., in Chino.

Photo courtesy: Shopping Center Business
The Stater Bros. Plaza is for sale, which is located off Schaefer Ave. and Euclid Ave., in Chino.

Chino– Recently, Hanley Investment Group has been chosen to represent and place Stater Bros. Plaza on the market for $35 million. The plaza is located on the cross streets of Schaefer Ave and Euclid Ave.

Stater Bros. had previously been located on Euclid Ave. and Riverside Dr. In 2008, they relocated to this new plaza to target an area expected to grow. They are currently on a lot of 7.54 acres, and about 95% occupied. This leaves a 5% vacancy available, a total of 3 suites available at approximately 3,660 feet in total of free space.

Some of the existing tenants besides the grocery store include: restaurant and food service, general services, education, and a clothing store.

According to Hanley Investment Group Analysis, Stater Bros. Plaza is expected to steadily increase in revenues for the next 10 years.

Letting The Ball Go By

By Michael Armijo
I recently played tennis for the first time in over 8 years and I learned a few things. For example, my body isn’t the same as it was 8 years ago.
While speaking to a chiropractor, I learned something that I felt was very interesting. I explained that while watching pro tennis players on TV, I noticed they would sometimes let (what I thought was) a very hittable ball go by.
My chiropractor explained that a professional tennis player is well disciplined and knows the limitations of his or her body. If a ball that seems returnable is in an awkward spot, it could cause serious injury to the player if he or she hits it. An awkward swing against the flow of the body can tear ligaments, pull muscles, or injure a player to a career-ending injury. So they simply do not take the swing.

What’s interesting to me is that this can apply to our everyday lives. If a “professional human being” knows the limitations of their heart and mind, they should pass on certain things, just like the tennis player passed on the ball. Maybe they should pass on a job that’s hazardous to their health, maybe avoid negative people, or even avoid excessive drinking, eating, exercise, or doing drugs all together. Or maybe they need to stop letting others control them or mistreat them; they should stay away from toxic people.
I believe we should know our emotional, mental, and physical limitations. We should take time to evaluate our own lives and protect our own well-being. And sometimes we just have to protect ourselves in life by just letting the ball go by.

Credit Where Credit Is Due

Pastor Ed Moreno of New Day Christian Church, Eastvale

Pastor Ed Moreno of New Day Christian Church, Eastvale

By Pastor Ed Moreno

When it comes to the successes and advancements we humans experience in life, are we quick to give God the glory?  Or do we seem to naturally give the credit to ourselves?

 

David went from being the youngest of eight brothers and a herder of sheep, to becoming a legendary warrior, a great leader, an accomplished musician, a prolific songwriter, and eventually King of the nation of Israel with a promise from God that David’s lineage would be blessed.

 

But even with all this success and advancement in life, David refused to take the glory to his own soul (2 Samuel 7:18-22a). Instead he gave all the credit and glory to God. David called God great, not himself.

 

David knew that he was merely a sinful human; that ultimately the only reason he had gotten so far in life is because God willed, allowed, and enabled David to achieve all that he did.

 

Folks, it is God who gave us our intelligence, our talents, our gifts, our drive, our abilities, and the air we breathe that keeps us alive.  Yes, we have been given free will to choose if we’ll utilize and/or develop what God has given us, but it is still God who has given us all these things.

 

The Apostle Paul said to his first-century and twenty-first-century readers: “What are you so puffed up about?  What do you have that God hasn’t given you?  And if all you have is from God, why act as though you are so great, and as though you have accomplished something on your own?” (1 Corinthians 4:7)

 

It’s always important for us to maintain a modest opinion of ourselves.  For again, only if God wills, allows, and/or enables us to achieve and succeed will we do so.  To God be the glory.  Like David, we know what we really are. So shouldn’t we stand in awe and just be grateful that God chooses to work through us at all?

 

New Day Christian Church meets Sundays at 9:30 and 11 a.m. They are located at 7155 Hamner Avenue, at Schleisman Road. For more information, visit http://www.newdaycc.net.

Vote-By-Mail Ballots Accepted

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Chino Hills- Election Day is coming up! On June 7th, the City Clerk’s office in Chino Hills City Hall will be available as an official drop-off location for vote-by-mail ballots from 7:30 a.m. to 8 p.m.

Voters may also deposit their ballots in a secure election box during regular business hours Monday through Thursday from 7 a.m. to 5:30 p.m. and on Friday from 7:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m.

The exact location to drop off ballots is on the second floor at City Hall, 14000 City Center Drive.

Polling place information and official election results are available at the San Bernardino County Registrar of Voters website http://www.sbcountyelections.com.

How Foods Can Help Heal Common Ailments

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Photo courtesy: Google Images

When you’re not feeling well, conventional wisdom says you should reach for over-the-counter or prescription remedies. But many experts point out that foods have healing properties that can be complementary in helping to treat common ailments and prevent illness.

“The concept of using food as medicine isn’t a new one; however, the evolution of society and science has moved us further from this concept,” says Grand Master Nan Lu, OMD, one of the country’s foremost teachers and practitioners of traditional Chinese medicine (TCM) and author of the new book Digesting the Universe: A Revolutionary Framework for Healthy Metabolism Function. “In my view, we are missing some of the most powerful and supportive steps we can take to remain well and prevent disease and illness.”

Lu says the teachings of TCM can help patients deal with the root cause of their problems, rather than just eliminate the symptoms. While complex, he is offering a few quick insights into the subject of food as medicine.

  • Nutritionists today base their work on the physical and chemical properties of food alone, but this is just half the picture. “There are many immaterial things contained within food as well,” says Lu, who cites Qi, or vital energy, as a key aspect of food you can’t see.
  • The “right” foods won’t necessarily protect your health by virtue of their properties alone. Good organ function is also necessary for your body to process and digest what you eat. However, foods can help restore balance to an ailing organ system.
  • Listen to your body, not cultural beliefs about what is good or bad for you. Lu offers the example of a woman craving sugar or salt during her menstrual cycle. “Assuming she listens to the wisdom of her body and satisfies her craving, she’ll have some chocolate or eat some potato chips. This woman is doing something natural.”
  • You may have heard of the adage, “you are what you eat.” Lu says to also consider the phrase, “you are what you think,” and avoid a steady diet of negative emotions, which you then must digest and process. Your thoughts impact your body and health, he says.
  • The next time your stomach is upset, consider reaching for something natural. Ginger can be eaten or used topically to deal with stomach discomfort, reduce inflammation and even lower pain from arthritis.

More information about TCM and Digesting the Universe can be found at tcmworld.org.

 

While modern science has offered us groundbreaking medications and treatments, traditional healing systems can help patients recognize the root cause of physical conditions for a healthier, more balanced life.

Walnut High Student Killed

By Racine Guajardo

Walnut– Walnut High School Student, Fernando Basurto, 18, was shot and killed on Thursday, May 19.

The Walnut/Diamond Bar Station responded to the 18400 Block of Desidia Street, Rowland Heights for a “gunshot victim” call. Immediately, they were directed to the alley, where the victim had been shot, according to the Sheriff’s Department. Basurto was treated by paramedics but pronounced dead at the scene.

After the Los Angeles County Sheriff’s Homicide detectives conducted an investigation, they’ve learned that the victim was shot at approximately 11:41 p.m. Witnesses recalled seeing two acquaintances with the victim hanging out in the garage of an apartment complex, when two Hispanics in their 20’s had confronted them. The verbal confrontation led to a physical altercation, which at some point a gun was pulled out and the suspect allegedly started firing at all 3 victims. The Sheriff’s Department confirmed that Basurto was the only one hit, in the upper torso.

The two suspects immediately fled east from the alley and out of view after the shooting. The other two victims were not injured, and it is unknown whether this incident was gang related.

Walnut High School announced that they have mobilized a crisis team who are available on an ongoing basis, including Grade Level Counselors, school psychologists, and direct personnel.

There is no additional information available at this point, but this is an ongoing investigation.

Anyone with additional information is encouraged to contact the Los Angeles County Sheriff’s Department’s Homicide Bureau at (323) 890-5500. If you prefer to provide information anonymously, you may call “Crime Stoppers” by dialing (800) 222-TIPS (8477), or texting the letters TIPLA plus your tip to CRIMES (274637), or by using the website http://lacrimestoppers.org.

 

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How Women Can Recover After Hitting Rock Bottom

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By Brittany Thomas

Movies from the 1980s profiled the prototypical “It Girl” – pretty, blond, wealthy, who drove luxury sports cars to high school, was liked by other girls and chased by all the boys.

Jane Zarse was that girl, and the persona continued into the ’90s, when she eventually graduated Boston University on the dean’s list and began acting in New York City and in Hollywood films.

That’s what nearly every young woman wants, right? Unfortunately for Zarse, it was a parallel image of her true self, she says. All the while, she’d been devolving into alcoholism and other self-abuses.

“My folks did very well and thought they were doing all the right things for their kids, but we never – never – spoke about our problems,” says Zarse, author of Love and Compassion Is My Religion.

“It was more important to keep up appearances, especially how we appeared to ourselves. After punishing myself with substance abuse, doomed relationships and more, I’d finally hit rock bottom.”

It’s the life story for countless Americans. For Zarse, a non-romantic relationship opened her eyes, aiding her to a robust recovery and a new way of experiencing spirituality. She offers insights for those who need help recovering after hitting rock bottom.

  • You can’t change or improve what you don’t acknowledge. Spirituality includes more than mental abstractions; it’s about applying transcendent insights into everyday life. Admitting problems, for instance, means transcending the powerful forces of pride, habit, complacency, etc. Hitting rock bottom forces you to see what you’ve been hiding for so long – that ugly, desperately addicted side of yourself.
    • Don’t fall for a false sense of control. When alcohol, serial dating and unsuccessful job prospects gave Zarse the sense that her life was spinning out of control, she developed an eating disorder. It gave her a false sense of security via an unhealthy expression of discipline. While recovering from rock bottom, such temptations may occur. If so, be honest that you may be grasping, once again, at something unsustainable.
    • Successful relationships require kindness and respect. As the “It Girl,” Zarse received plenty of attention from men. If she wanted a relationship, she was able to find herself in one quickly. But an entitled mentality, coupled with substance abuse, fostered toxicity in her first marriage. You get back what you put into relationships.

“I remember thinking: What’s the point of quitting drinking? – I’ll still be thinking about it constantly,” Zarse says. “If you find yourself with similar thoughts, it may be time seek help. Remember, that help may come in unexpected people.”

Prince Charming

By Michael Armijo

I thought it was a war movie, or maybe a history movie; the previews were very realistic. Children played ball while large planes flew overhead. The camera shot followed the bombs as they landed on the enormous ships. I could see the determined look in the crewman’s eyes as he fired the machine guns at the planes in the sky above. It seemed like a pretty cool action movie, but I was taken by a deep surprise as a love story unfolded while watching, “Pearl Harbor.”
Picture this: a young woman departs from a train, and you can’t help but notice the beautiful glow on her face. She smiles, convincingly, and carries herself as though her life was like a child’s dream. The gleam in her eye, the uncontrollable smile, the happy pitch in her voice – she is most definitely in love.
As she approaches a young man, he stands there, handsomely, in his striking uniform.  With flowers in hand and hat in place, his love beams like a proud 10-year-old who has hit the winning home run. He obviously desires to be near her. He’s in love; free from judgment, free from dysfunction. He stands there and confesses his love for her, and she believes him, because he means it. He means every syllable, every vowel, and every adjective that comes out of his mouth. He loves her as no other. He loves her unconditionally.
When I saw the reflection of his heart on her face, when I saw her overcome with the power of emotion, I saw how she felt, and it came to me- it was obvious that she felt the way she did because he loved her, completely. He stood there in his fairytale book stance, and he proved he was, undeniably, the man of her dreams.
The look in her eyes, the love in her smile, was just captivating. It was right then that I knew he was responsible for her love, and I understood that as men, we are responsible for our partner’s love. It’s our responsibility to provide a strong, loving arena for the one we love, so they have no choice but to feel that life is like a Hollywood movie with a storybook ending. I also realized that it’s been years since I’ve seen that movie-like emotion in a woman’s smile. And something surprising came to me:  I am no Prince Charming.
I wondered what it would be like to be someone who was capable of giving their heart to someone else, unconditionally, uncontrollably. I wondered what it would take to love someone and to feel free from fear, to give it all up, opening myself to possible pain.
I wanted to be like that actor. I wanted to be someone who was capable of all the emotion that comes with love. But more surprisingly, I wanted that stature in life, and not for me, but for my partner. I wanted to become something that I currently was not, so that I could someday stand there like that actor did, at the train station, while my love’s heart beamed with the desire to be with me. I wanted to be free from all of life’s historical pains, egos, anger, frustration, and unhappiness, so that I could be responsible for her undying love. I wanted her to have this life because deep in my heart I know she deserves it. She deserves to feel the way that young woman did at the train station. She deserves every minute of that joy.
Yes, it was just a movie, but to me, today, it’s real life. Because of a simple, believable moment manufactured by Hollywood, I will do all I can for the woman I love, the love that she deserves. I’m trying my best by forgiving past pain and experiences. I’m letting go of agony that bad love once provided. I’m leaving all the insecurities and the egos in the past. I will be giving her my heart. I’ll hold her hand. I’ll open her doors. And I’ll be patient. I’ll learn how to apologize more often. I’ll be her friend, and I’ll let her be my friend. I’ll call her, sometimes just to tell her “hi,” or “I love you,” and I’ll have no ulterior motive. I’ll work so hard to earn her trust, to prove to her that I’m capable of loving. I’m learning how to love again.
And I know that a day will come when she’ll smile brightly. She’ll stand there, and her eyes will glisten with happiness. Her hand will clasp my own. Her hug will be trusting and convincing. She’ll whisper in my ear that she loves me. And she will smile uncontrollably. Then I will know in my heart that that I’ve finally provided her with her fairytale, her movie-like love. And when that day comes I will be able to feel her heart from a million miles away, and I’ll know that I’ll finally, become what she deserves. Her Prince

CH Residents Have Priority Registration For Swim Lessons

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Chino Hills– Starting Monday, May 23rd, Chino Hills residents will have the opportunity to receive priority registration for the City’s summer swim lessons. At 7:30 a.m. residents may visit www.chinohills.org/RecOnline and follow the steps to creating an account. If you wish to physically submit a form, you may mail in the registration form from page of the City’s Summer Recreation Guide & City News, in which has been delivered. The form may also be obtained at www.chinohills.org/RecOnline, where you can click on the Recreation Brochure and print page four.

The registration form that has been mailed in must be postmarked prior to Friday, May 20th or will be returned with no exceptions.

On June 1st, non-residents may check availability and register online, in person, or by mail. If mailed in, the form must be postmarked prior to Tuesday, May 31st or will be returned with no exceptions.

With recent feedback, City of Chino Hills decided to provide more flexibility for families by offering swim lessons in one-week session for 45 minute classes, instead of the previous two-week session for 30 minute classes.

The City’s swim lessons will be at Chino Hills High School for Sessions 1 (June 20-24), session 2 (June 27-July 1), and session 3 (July 5-8). Swim lessons are also offered at Ayala High School for session 4 (July 11-15), session 5 (July 18-22), session 6 (July 25-29), and session 7 (August 1-5). Class times will vary.

New this year, an H20 Aerobics class has been added for any person over the age of 15 years old, offered by City Staff at Ayala High School pool (July 11-22: 12:40- 1:25 p.m.). Swimming skills are not required and conducted in 4 feet of water.

City of Chino Hills has also made changes to their refund policy, which is as follows: requests for refunds for swim lessons must be submitted in writing and turned in 10 business days prior to the start of the session. Refunds will be honored if your spot in the swim lesson can be filled with someone on the waitlist. A refund request is available at the Chino Hills Community Center. A $4 processing charge will be deducted and a refund or credit will be issued. If the amount to be returned is over $99, a refund will be issued. For amounts of $99 or less, the customer may choose a refund or a household credit in which is valid for 3 years.

For additional information, you can go online and access page 15 of the City Recreation Guide or contact the Community Services Department at (909) 364-2700.

Mustang Athletes Commit To Play College Sports

Dwight Ramos scores full-ride scholarship to CSUF

Photo courtesy: Kelli Gile Walnut High student athletes, Eli Goichenberg, Hassan Nasir, Dwight Ramos, Micah Maes, Quinn Cooper, and Christian Longoria are moving on to play collegiate sports. Shown with Principal Brandon Dade and Athletic Director Jerry Person.

Photo courtesy: Kelli Gile
Walnut High student athletes, Eli Goichenberg, Hassan Nasir, Dwight Ramos, Micah Maes, Quinn Cooper, and Christian Longoria are moving on to play collegiate sports. Shown with Principal Brandon Dade and Athletic Director Jerry Person.

By Kelli Gile

Walnut–Walnut High School celebrated six athletes who have committed to play college sports during a lunchtime rally with proud coaches, families and friends.

Seniors Dwight Ramos (basketball), Eli Goichenberg (football), Micah Maes (football), Hassan Nasir (football), Quinn Cooper (baseball), and Christian Longoria (baseball), took to the amphitheater stage to mark the milestone moment.

“Most kids can only dream about this opportunity, and you’re going to live it!” said Principal Brandon Dade.

Guard Dwight Ramos is one step closer to realizing his dream of playing professional sports.

The 17-year-old basketball star signed a national letter of intent to play at Cal State University, Fullerton on April 29.

The 6-foot-five-inch player received a prestigious full-ride scholarship to the Division 1 school, where he plans to study business.

“It feels really good,” he said at the signing ceremony.  “I worked really hard to get here!”

Dwight’s been a part of varsity basketball team for the past two years, most recently being named an MVP, winning 1st Team All-Hacienda League, and All CIF First Team awards.

The standout Walnut team has made it to the CIF quarterfinals for the past two years.

“Dwight’s probably one of the most talented players to come to Walnut,” said coach Joe Khouzam. “He put in the work and did whatever we needed him to do this year,” he added.

“I’m sad to see him leave, but happy for him!”

“Dwight’s got the drive. I see him all the time working out and doing the extra beyond practice to improve his skills,” said Athletic Director Jerry Person. “He’s got a three-point shot that won’t quit. You name it, he’s got it!”

Several student athletes received assistance to get on a team and play for a college. Eli Goichenberg received a financial package to play football at Monmouth College in Illinois in the fall.

 

“In the time-span of an hour it rained, snowed, was over 80-degrees, and extreme wind,” he said about his visit to the school.

“It was wild! I’m going to wear a tank top under a shirt, under a jacket, under a North Face jacket!”

Micah Maes committed to play football at Sewanee University in Tennessee, receiving a financial package arranged through the athletic department.

Hassan Nasir will also play football at nearby Pitzer College in Pomona, receiving a financial package arranged through the athletic department.

Baseball players Quinn Cooper, outfield/DH, is Cal Poly Pomona bound and pitcher Christian Longoria is headed to Azusa Pacific University

“It’s important to know that even though they went to Division III schools, two turned down offers to play, and one a full-ride scholarship, to Division I schools. But, because they’re academically inclined, they made great choices for their future,” said head football coach Alfredo Silva.

 

Your Child’s Best and Most Productive Summer

Licensed Marriage Family Therapist

Nancy Stoops M.A., M.F.T Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

By Nancy Stoops

I am a very big believer in rest and relaxation, and I feel summer is a great time to do that.  I take a lot of time off in the summer to relax, but I feel that summer must also be productive as well. I force myself to move at a much slower pace and I do play a lot more, but I try to remember the concept of balance, as well.

Summer also allows for some unique activities for your children. For example, I see summer as a time to work on special talents and projects.  Having a project can be very grounding and give you something to be working toward, which I believe is a very important concept.  But, this doesn’t take away from a very well deserved break.

The other really great piece about being productive this summer is that your child won’t lose all of their skills over the summer and returning to school will be easier.  If we don’t use something for three months, our skills can become rusty.  By allowing our children to do absolutely nothing over the summer, we are not doing them a favor; we are doing them a grave injustice.

So encourage your children to read a book, write a story about something fun, walk the dog to keep their muscles strong, help you add and subtract how many miles you’ll be traveling this vacation, understand why when you throw the ball up, it always comes back down, and just keep learning the whole summer through. Teach them the way to find that balance that will enhance their relaxation, make them feel good about their productivity, and allow them to have more fun than they ever have!

 

Nancy Stoops

This article was written by Nancy Stoops M.A., M.F.T.  Nancy is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist.  She has a private practice in Diamond Bar and is currently accepting new clients; she is also a motivational speaker who can inspire your employees or group members.  Nancy runs free family support groups, a group on loss for seniors, and groups on how to manage anger.    For more information about any of these services feel free to contact her at (909) 229-0727.  You may e-mail Nancy at nancyjstoops@verizon.net

Local Festival In Chino

Staff Reports

Chino – The sounds of laughing children, whooshing rides, live entertainment and the savory smell of delicious fair foods will soon carry throughout the school grounds at St. Margaret Mary Catholic Church. It’s the Annual Festival you don’t want to miss! St. Margaret Mary Parish will be holding their Annual Parish Festival from June 3 to June 5. The festival will take place at 12686 Central Ave. in Chino. Admission and parking is free.

The St. Margaret Mary Festival has been an important part of the Chino community since 1982. The Parish Festival Committee is dedicated to bringing together families and friends with three fun-filled days of entertainment and family fun activities. Get your heart pumping in the obstacle course bounce house, enjoy live music, from top local entertainers including, 80z All Stars, The Sam Morrison Band, Smooth Touch, and mariachi on Sunday.

Enjoy delicious (and sometimes messy) food competitions, carnival rides, BINGO, and games. Come and enjoy all your favorite fried, grilled, sweet and savory carnival foods. Every year, the festival offers world foods including, American, Mexican, Italian, and Filipino. New additions to the food booths are Farrell’s Ice Cream Parlour and a Fry Booth. Alongside the montage of tasty foods; adults can relax in the Anheuser-Busch Beer Garden situated near the entertainment.

Father Michael Miller extends an invitation to all Chino Valley community members to attend the annual celebration. “St. Margaret Mary’s festival is altogether a joyous time to rejoice and celebrate in the spirit of community. Come and enjoy!” said Miller. Waylynn Senn, Principal of St. Margaret Mary Catholic School, also says to bring the entire family. “Every year brings more activities and entertainment for festival goers to enjoy and memories to treasure for years to come. Share in the excitement of faith, family, and community!”

The annual festival of St. Margaret Mary Parish would not be possible without the support of the following sponsors, MK Smith Chevrolet; Farrell’s Ice Cream Parlour; San Antonio Winery; Direct TV; Orange County Jumpers; Forest Lawn; and GSV Transportation. Additionally, contributions from sponsors and individuals will also be supporting Isaiah’s Rock Food Ministry and Chino Neighborhood House.

Exchange Zone Created At Sheriff’s Station

Photo courtesy: Walnut/Diamond Bar Sheriff’s Department Caption: The Walnut/Diamond Bar Sheriff’s Department has created an “exchange zone” for residents who are selling or buying an item from someone they met online.

Photo courtesy: Walnut/Diamond Bar Sheriff’s Department
Caption:
The Walnut/Diamond Bar Sheriff’s Department has created an “exchange zone” for residents who are selling or buying an item from someone they met online.

Staff Reports

Walnut/Diamond Bar- Buying and selling online has become a new trend within social media sites, internet sites, and new apps that have been created. However, reports of thefts have raised an issue with Walnut/Diamond Bar Sheriff’s Department.  Therefore, the Sheriff’s Department has created an “exchange zone” for residents to meet safely while selling or buying an item from someone they met online. The “exchange zone” is clearly marked for either party involved.

Walnut/Diamond Sheriff’s department would like to also note that they “cannot act as official witnesses to any transactions, will not give legal advice, and will not settle civil disputes related to any transaction,” according to a Sheriff’s Department News Release.

If you have any additional concerns or questions, you may contact Captain Jeffrey Scroggin at (909) 595-2264.